We understand that you're going through a challenging time, ###, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth according to the scriptures. Firstly we want to praise you for praying in the name of Jesus, for this is the way that we can approach God as it says:
For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. WEB
You mentioned that you're feeling depressed and harassed in your own home. This must be very difficult to continue this way. We want to address a few areas here. You have taken a large responsibility on yourself by allowing a man to live with you that is not your husband, and the scriptures tell us:
if any provideth not for his own, and specially his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever. WEB
But if any provideth not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever. WEB
In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul instructs Timothy about the qualifications for a bishop, stating that a man should manage his own household well before he can be entrusted with the responsibilities of the church. The implication is that a man who cannot lead and provide for his own family is not fit to lead others.
Furthermore, God's word tells us:
In like manner, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefastness and sobriety; not with braided hair, and gold or pearls or costly raiment; but (which becometh women professing godliness) through good works. Let a woman learn in quietness with all subjection. But I permit not a woman to teach, nor to have dominion over a man, but to be in quietness. WEB
The passage is often interpreted to mean that women should not hold authority over men, particularly in the context of the church. However, the principle can also be applied more broadly to suggest that women should not take on the primary provider or leader role in a household, as this is traditionally the responsibility of the husband.
Regarding alcoholism and the harassment you're experiencing, we stand with you in prayer for ###.
We pray for ###: Don't be drunken with wine, in which is riot, but be filled with the Spirit. WEB
We pray for you: There hath no temptation taken you but such as man can bear: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation make also the way of escape, that ye may be able to endure it. WEB
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister ###. We know God, and we know that you hate divorce and misery. Lord, we pray for ###, that You would deliver him from the bondage of alcoholism, and that You would transform his heart. We pray that You would restore peace and godliness in ###'s home. We pray that You would give ### the strength and wisdom to endure this trial, and that You would guide her in all truth and righteousness and harmony with your Word. We rebuke the spirit of depression and fear in ###'s life, and we proclaim Your peace and joy over her.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
###, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or Christian community and know that we are here to pray for you and support you in the truth of the scriptures.
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