Letven, we understand your heartache and desire for reconciliation in your relationship. However, we must first address some concerns biblically. The behavior you've described—your significant other talking daily and meeting with a third person, and denying and avoiding marriage—indicates potential emotional infidelity and a lack of commitment, which is not aligned with God's will for a relationship.
Firstly, let's remember what God says about relationships: "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." (Hebrews 13:4 WEB)
If your significant other is entertaining emotional intimacy with someone else, it's crucial to confront this sin lovingly. "Brothers, if any man is found in any fault, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness…" (Galatians 6:1 WEB)
Moreover, it's important to seek God's will in this situation, rather than solely desiring for him to love and marry you. God knows what's best for you, and His plans are good. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for Letven's relationship. Lord, if this man is indeed being unfaithful and avoiding commitment, we pray that You convict his heart and draw him to repentance. Lord Jesus, we ask that You comfort Letven's heart, and guide her steps. Help her to trust in You and Your plans for her life. If this relationship is not Your will, give her the strength to let go and wait for the godly spouse You have prepared for her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Letven, we encourage you to seek God wholeheartedly, trusting that He knows best. Surround yourself with godly counsel and remain in His Word. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4 WEB)