We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing, and we appreciate your desire to bring them before God in prayer. Firstly, we want to address the notion that God might be thinking negatively about you. This is not true. God loves you deeply and unconditionally. His thoughts towards you are thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope, according to the Scriptures.
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB
It's important to remember that God's love for you is not based on your employment status or any other circumstance. He loves you for who you are, and He has a purpose for your life.
Regarding your unemployment, we encourage you to continue trusting God and seeking His will for your life. He has promised to supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.
But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33 WEB
Now concerning the issue of marriage, we want to encourage you to keep an open heart towards the idea. Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and it is a blessing to have a spouse who supports and complements you. However, it's also important to seek God's will in this area and not rush into any decision.
Nevertheless, each of you should have your own wife to live with you, and let every woman have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB
We also want to address the fact that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved.
For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB
Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask that You comfort them and remind them of Your unfailing love. We pray that You would open doors for gainful employment, and guide them towards a godly spouse if that is Your will for their life. Help them to trust in You and seek Your will in all things.
We recognize the claim by Jesus Christ and the power of His name, so Lord we ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.
Amen.