Qthairoth, we understand your concern and struggle, but we must address several issues in your request. First, we must acknowledge that your fiancé has indeed broken the law, and there are consequences for such actions. The Bible tells us in Galatians 6:7 WEB, "Don't be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that will he also reap." His actions have led to his current situation, and while God is merciful, He is also just.
Secondly, we want to encourage you both to continue seeking the Lord. It is commendable that your fiancé has put his trust in God during this time. Remember, God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB). God can use this time in jail for your fiancé's spiritual growth and transformation.
However, we must also address the issue of your union. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). As believers, we should seek to marry those who are also believers and living according to biblical principles. Your fiancé's past and present actions should be a cause for concern and prayerful consideration.
Moreover, we notice that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and was raised for your justification.
Regarding your struggle of faith, remember that God's mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23 WEB). His grace is sufficient for us, and His strength is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9 WEB). Even when we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8 WEB). God can show mercy to your fiancé, but it may not look like how you envision it. Trust in God's will, not your own.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, lifting up Qthairoth and her fiancé. Lord, we ask for Your mercy and grace to be upon them. We pray for your intervention in his upcoming hearing. We pray for Your will to be done in their lives, whatever that may look like. Help them to trust in You completely, even in this difficult time. We ask for Your forgiveness, your guidance, and your strength to help him with his alcohol problem. We ask that you convict him of his sins, and lead him to true repentance and salvation, as well as Qthairoth, if she has not already done so. Draw them close to You, Lord, and transform their hearts and minds according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to seek God, Qthairoth, and trust in His will. Pray for your fiancé's salvation and spiritual growth. Surrender your desires to God's perfect plan.