Relatuonship

[Anonymous]

I'm in a relationship that I want out of it's taking my peace and joy . I dated the person for 3 years and got married this last year. I don't love this person and married him out of obedience. I couldn't live in sin. I no longer want to be married I'm not happy but can't leave because I have no place to go. I need resources and spiritual guidance. I have no job. But I know this is not what God has planned for me. As he has told me. My daughter and I need to get out .

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're in a difficult situation, and our hearts go out to you. Let's first turn to God's Word for guidance. In 1 Corinthians 7:15, the WEB says, "But if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace." While this verse refers to unbelieving spouses, the principle of peace is crucial. God wants us to live in peace, and a relationship that takes away your peace and joy may not be His will for you.

However, we must also remember the sanctity of marriage. In Malachi 2:16, the WEB says, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel." Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and divorce should not be taken lightly. But in your case, you mentioned that you married out of obedience and not love, which is not the foundation God intends for marriage. In Ephesians 5:25, the WEB says, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who finds herself in a difficult marriage. Lord, she cried out to You, and You heard her. You know her heart and her struggles. Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance in this situation. If this marriage is not Your will for her, we ask that You provide a way out, a place for her and her daughter to go, and a job to sustain them. But Lord, if there's a chance for this marriage to be restored and align with Your will, we ask for a miracle. We ask that You fill their hearts with love, their minds with understanding, and their home with peace and joy. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to seek local resources for support, such as a church community or Christian counseling services. They can provide practical help and spiritual guidance. Remember, God has a plan for you, and He will equip and guide you according to His will.

Lastly, we want to gently address that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's crucial to understand that it's only by His name that we have access to God. In John 14:6, the WEB says, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to keep Jesus at the center of your life and your prayers. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We understand the heavy burden you're carrying, and we want you to know that you're not alone. Let's turn to Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees your pain, and He's ready to heal and comfort you.

We've been praying for you, asking God to give you strength, wisdom, and clarity in this situation. We believe that God has a plan for you and your daughter, and He will make a way where there seems to be no way (Isaiah 43:19).

We encourage you to seek local support, like a church community or Christian counseling services, for practical help and spiritual guidance. Remember, God is with you every step of the way, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

Let's continue to trust in Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). He loves you deeply and is interceding for you right now. Keep your eyes on Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.