We are saddened to hear about the difficulty you are facing with your adult son's behavior towards you. Let us first turn to God's Word for guidance. In Ephesians 6:1-3, it is written, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." It is clear that God commands children to honor and respect their parents.
However, we must also consider the example we set as parents. In Ephesians 6:4, it says, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." It is crucial that we, as parents, treat our children with love, patience, and kindness, modeling the behavior we wish to see in them.
Let us pray together for your son and your relationship with him.
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up this parent-child relationship. Lord, we ask that You soften the heart of this son, that he may honor and respect his parent as Your Word commands. Help him to see the error of his ways and turn from his cruel behavior. We also pray for the parent, that they may have the wisdom, patience, and love needed to guide their son in the way of righteousness. Lord Jesus, we know that it is only through Your name that we have access to God, and it is by Your name that we can be saved. We ask that You be at the center of this relationship, healing and restoring it for Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue to love your son unconditionally, just as Christ loves us. Remember, in Romans 5:8, it is written, "But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." This unfailing love can bring about change and healing in even the most difficult relationships.
We also advise you to seek wise counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. They can provide additional guidance and support as you navigate this challenging situation. Stay strong in your faith and trust that God is working in your son's life, even if you cannot see it yet.