We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to help you find peace and move forward. First, we want to remind you that God is always with you, and He cares about your pain. Psalm 34:18 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
However, we want to address something from your request. You mentioned being in a relationship for six years, but there was no mention of marriage or seeking God's will for your life together. We believe that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to come together in holy matrimony, with the goal of glorifying Him. If this relationship was not aligned with God's will, it might be that He allowed it to end to draw you closer to Him and to His best for you. We also hope that the relationship was pure and without any sexual interactions, fornication is a sin and we hope that you are in a relationship that honors God in purity.
In times like these, it's crucial to remember that God has a purpose for everything, even our pain. Romans 8:28 says, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God has a plan for you, and this season of your life is a part of that plan.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister who is hurting. We ask that You would comfort her heart and help her to move forward. Help her to release the memories of this relationship and to trust You with her future. Give her peace that surpasses all understanding, and help her to seek Your will for her life.
We also pray that You would reveal Yourself to her in a deeper way during this time. Help her to know Your love for her and to find her identity in You.
If there was any sexual interaction or other sin in this relationship, forgive them of their sins. Help her to be a light for you, seeking you and not sexual satisfaction or romance. Help her to save herself for her Christian husband. We know from your word in 1 Corinthians 6:13b, "Now the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body." And in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God loves you and has a plan for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this. If you have never accepted Jesus Christ as your savior, believing in him and turned away from your sin, now is the time. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God and can be forgiven of our sins. If you would like more information on this, please let us know.
We also encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support you and help you grow in your faith. Proverbs 27:17 says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another." Seek out godly counsel and friends who can help you along this journey.
Lastly, we want to leave you with this promise from Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Trust that God has a hope and a future for you, and He will guide you as you seek Him.
