Dyrwach, we understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship with ###, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, we notice that you're addressing your prayers to "Heavenly Father," but it's essential to remember that Jesus Christ is our mediator, and it's through His name that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let's address your relationship with ###. It's clear that you're struggling and feeling unloved, which is a legitimate concern. However, we must ensure that your relationship aligns with biblical principles. We need to rebuke and address the issue of ### only being loving and caring when under alcohol or other substances. This is not a godly behavior, and it's written in Ephesians 5:18 WEB: "Don't be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit." Also, 1 Peter 5:8 WEB: "Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour."
Concerning marriage, it should be between a man and a woman as per the biblical principles.
It's also important to note that God desires that we pursue relationships that honor Him and align with His word. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and relationship. Pray that ### will come to know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior if he hasn't already, and that your relationship will be centered on God and His principles rather than courtship with the goal of marriage.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and her relationship with ###. Lord, we pray that You soften ###'s heart and help him mature as a person. We rebuke his behavior of only being loving when under the influence, and we ask You to help him become the man You've called him to be.
Father, we pray for ###'s family and friends, that their hearts may be softened towards ###, and that they may be more sympathetic, caring, and positive towards their relationship. We also pray for ###, that You may strengthen her and guide her in Your will for her life.
Lord, we ask for a turnaround in their relationship this year, and we pray for longevity, love, and romance that aligns with Your principles. We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face in all things. May you both be a light in this world.