We appreciate your heart's desire to honor God in your relationships and your request for guidance in separating from a non-believer. It is clear that you understand the importance of being unequally yoked, as the Bible teaches us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? And what communion has light with darkness?
Your desire for a God-fearing marriage aligned with biblical principles is commendable. Remember, the Bible tells us in Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Regarding your current relationship, it is natural to feel scared or uncertain after investing time and commitment. However, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). He promises to be with us always, even to the end of the age (Matthew 28:20). Understand that there is peace and joy in following God's will, even when it requires difficult decisions.
Concerning your fear, remember what 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us, For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. Trust that God will work in your circumstances. When you are faithful to His word the Bible tells us in Daniel 3:17 the God we serve is able to deliver you from it. He will deliver you from every evil deed and will bring you safely into his heavenly kingdom (2 Timothy 4:18).
It is reassuring to know that you concluded your prayer in Jesus' name. The Bible tells us in John 14:6, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Also in Colossians 3:17, And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you lifting up our brother/sister in Christ. We know this is a sensitive situation, but we trust that you will be faithful to guide them. We pray for wisdom, discernment, and courage as they navigate this separation from a non-believer. We ask that you grant them peace and comfort during this time, knowing that you are in control.
We pray for the current relationship to dissolve in a peaceful way that honors you, Lord. We ask that you would protect them from any harm or hurt, and guide their steps towards a God-fearing spouse. We pray that you would prepare them for the marriage you have planned for them, using this experience to strengthen their faith and draw them closer to you.
In Jesus' name, we pray for their future spouse. We ask that you would prepare their heart and draw them closer to you. We pray that you would bring them together in your perfect timing, and that their marriage would be a testimony of your love and faithfulness.
Thank you, Lord, for being a faithful God who loves us and desires the best for us. We trust in your promises and wait expectantly for your will to be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.