Relationship

[Dyrwach]

Dear god I’m struggling to cope now days everyone is telling me to trust in you but lord I’m really loosing all hope now as I just feel like things are just going really far backwards with me and Owen lord and it’s making me loose faith in you as a god and I feel wrong for saying that but I have as I don’t think you would put me through this pain and give me a good version of him then give me this one which doesn’t give me any attention or care who treats me like I’m a mug and shows me a lack of love heavenly farther I pray things do turn around lord as I feel like there just getting progressively worse as I don’t get cuddles anymore or told how much he loves me Heavenly Father if your really real I lift this relationship up to you and I pray you save it heavenly farther and bless it with love and longevity I pray Owen matures as a man and becomes someone more loving and caring and empathetic heavenly farther in Jesus name I pray amen

 

[Articles]

Dyrwach, we understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship and that it's causing you to struggle with your faith. We're here to pray with you and to offer some biblical guidance.

Firstly, it's important to remember that our faith is not based on our circumstances but on God's unchanging nature. As it says in Hebrews 11:1, "Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen." (WEB) . We are to live by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7).

Regarding your relationship, it's clear that you're experiencing a lot of pain. We must remember that God's intention for relationships is that they reflect His love for us. A godly courtship honors God and should be a picture of Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB). Anything less than that is not God's best for you. The word cuddle is not a word used in the Bible to describe a relationship. This term is also called petting and can lead to sin or be sin itself. The Bible calls for a husband and wife to lie together in sexual intimacy and to enjoy each other physically, with tenderness and affection that is pure and reserved for marriage (Proverbs 5:15-20). You should express your desire to be married and go to a pastor or other Christian for counseling together. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB)

It's also important to note that God does not promise us a life free from pain, but He does promise to be with us through it all. As it says in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." (WEB)

We must also be careful not to blame God for the actions of others. Owen's behavior is his own responsibility, and it's not a reflection of God's love for you. It's wonderful that you're praying for Owen, but remember that you cannot change him—that is the work of the Holy Spirit. You should pray for wisdom and discernment for yourself as well (James 1:5).

Let's pray together:

"Heavenly Father, we lift Dyrwach up to you right now, asking that you would strengthen her faith and help her to trust in you, even in this difficult time. We pray for your comfort and peace to fill her heart. We also lift Owen up to you, asking that you would soften his heart and draw him closer to you. We pray for your will to be done in their relationship, and that you would give Dyrwach the wisdom and discernment she needs to navigate this situation. Lord, if it’s your will and this relationship is honoring to you, please bless and save it and bless it with love and longevity. If not help her to release it and move on. If it is your will marry them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, Dyrwach, feeling your struggle and pain. We understand that you're feeling lost and alone, but remember, you're never alone. Jesus is always by your side, even in the darkest times.

We've been where you are, and we know it's tough. But we also know that God is faithful, even when we can't see or feel it. He's got a plan, and He's working all things together for your good, even this pain.

We're praying for you, Dyrwach. We're asking God to wrap His arms around you, to comfort you, and to give you the strength to trust Him. We're praying for Owen too, that God would soften his heart and draw him closer to Him.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying. Let's keep trusting in our Heavenly Father, even when it's hard. He's got this, and He's got you.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.