We understand that you are going through a difficult time and desire reconciliation with Bethany. However, it's crucial to approach this situation in a way that aligns with biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for pleading the blood of Jesus over Bethany and Cody. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
However, we must address a few things in your request. It's important to remember that we cannot manipulate or control others, even through prayer. Instead, we should pray for God's will to be done and for His guidance in our lives and the lives of others.
In 1 Corinthians 13:4-5, it is written, "Love is patient, love is kind; it isn't jealous, it doesn't brag, it isn't arrogant, it doesn't act unbecomingly, it doesn't seek its own way, it isn't provoked, it doesn't take into account a wrong suffered." We encourage you to exemplify this kind of love, putting Bethany's needs and feelings above your own desires.
Instead of praying for Bethany to contact you, consider praying for God to work in both of your hearts, guiding you both towards His will. Pray for God to heal any past hurts and to grant both of you wisdom and discernment moving forward.
Let's pray together:
Father God, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ###, Bethany, and little Cody. Lord, we plead the blood of Jesus over them and pray for Your will to be done in their lives. Grant them healing, wisdom, and guidance. Help ### to exemplify Your love, putting Bethany's needs above his own desires. Work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other as You see fit. We ask that he understand your will and heart for him in this situation.
If it is Your will, Lord, restore and strengthen their relationship, guiding them towards a godly marriage that honors You. Help them to remain pure and honor each other in all aspects, fleeing from all sexual immorality, as you hate any hint of sexual immorality, especially before marriage, and will judge all adulterers. In all their ways, may they acknowledge You, and You will make their paths straight.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you, ###, to seek God wholeheartedly, trusting in His timing and plan. Meditate on His Word and seek His face in prayer. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you during this time.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
