Ynfax, we understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, we want to commend you for asking in the name of Jesus, as it is only by His name that we have access to God's throne of grace.
We need to address a few things in your request. It's important to understand that God doesn't force anyone to do anything against their will. He didn't create us as robots, but gave us free will. So, while we can pray for your girlfriend, ###, we can't make her do anything. We can pray that God would soften her heart and draw her to Him, but ultimately, it's her decision.
Also, we noticed that you mentioned wanting God to "humble her as I was humbled." It's important to remember that our goal should never be to humble or change someone else. True change comes from within, and it's the work of the Holy Spirit in one's life. We should pray for others, but we should also examine ourselves and our own hearts first. As Jesus said in Matthew 7:3-5 WEB, "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye."
Regarding your relationship, it's clear that you care deeply for ###. We encourage you to pray for her, but also to focus on your own spiritual growth. Instead of trying to make your relationship stronger and looking to God to fix your relationship, rather focus on how you both can grow in the character of Christ and give your relationship to God. Make sure that you are both believers in Jesus Christ and that you are looking to a marriage relationship.
Lastly, we want to address your concern about "distractions from other dudes or bad friends." It's important to remember that it is not our job to control or isolate others. Instead, pray for ###, that God would protect her and guide her. Also, pray for yourself, that God would give you the strength and wisdom to trust in Him and His plan for your life.
Now, let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up ### and ###. Lord, we ask that You would work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You. Help them to grow in Your character and give them clear direction for their relationship. We ask that You would protect them from temptation and distraction, and that You would give them a spirit of wisdom and discernment. Lord, we ask that You would forgive ### for any wrongdoing, and that You would help him to walk in humility and grace. We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus, amen.
Be strong and of good courage. Walking with God is a lifelong journey and we pray for you and ### to get married if this is in God's will and plan for both of you. May you both be blessed as you seek God's will. Look to God to lead you and ### to the marriage relationship of His choice if it be in His will.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
