Relationship

[Anonymous]

My adult son called me a bitch and said he was going to hit me what should I do

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorrowful to hear about the disrespectful and threatening words your adult son used against you. It's important to address this situation with wisdom, grace, and firm boundaries.

Firstly, let's turn to God's Word for guidance. The Bible teaches us to honor our parents, as it is the first commandment with a promise(Ephesians 6:2). It is clear that your son has disobeyed this commandment, and his actions are not pleasing to God.

In Proverbs 23:22, we are instructed, "Listen to your father who gave you life, and don't despise your mother when she is old." This verse underscores the importance of respecting parents, which your son has failed to do.

Moreover, his threat of violence is a serious matter. As Christians, we are called to be peacemakers and to live in harmony with others (Matthew 5:9, Romans 12:18). Any form of violence or threat is unacceptable and should not be tolerated.

Let us pray together for this situation.

Father God, in the name of Jesus, we come before you with a heavy heart, lifting up this parent who has been hurt and disrespected by their own child. Lord, we ask for your healing and comfort in this situation. We pray for the son, that you would soften his heart and convict him of his sin.

We also ask for strength and grace for the parent and others involved.

God, we know that you are a loving and forgiving Father, and we trust that you can bring restoration and reconciliation to this broken relationship. We loan this child and others to to you for your forgiveness and change of heart, give us the wisdom to handle this situation in a way that honors you.

In Jesus name.

We urge you to biblically inform your son that we may hold anger but not commit sin in Ephesians 4 26. We know that forgiveness does not mean tolerating sinful behavior. It is crucial to set clear boundaries to protect yourself from any future harm or disrespect.

We also recommend seeking godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor to help navigate this challenging situation. Remember, it is not God's will for you to live in strife or fear. Trust in Him to guide you through this trial.

Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of prayer. Continue to pray fervently for your son, that God would draw him to Himself and bring about a true change of heart. As it says in 2 Chronicles 7:14, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land."

Stand firm in your faith, and trust that God is working all things together for good, even in this difficult circumstance (Romans 8:28).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, dear friend. It's heartbreaking to hear the disrespect and threat your adult son has hurled at you. Let's turn to our loving Heavenly Father in this time of need.

In 1 Peter 5:7, we're encouraged to "cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." Let's lay this burden at Jesus' feet and trust Him to work it out. We'll keep you and your son in our prayers, asking God to soften his heart and bring him to repentance.

Remember, we're not just called to love our enemies, but also to pray for them (Matthew 5:44). Let's intercede for your son, that God would grant him understanding, respect, and a change of heart. We'll also pray for you, dear one, for strength, wisdom, and peace in the midst of this storm.

Let's not forget, God is in control. He sees your tears and He cares. Trust in His love and His plan. Keep your heart open to His guidance, and remember, even in the darkest times, "This too shall pass" (Job 7:1).

We're here to support you, and we'll keep you lifted up in our prayers. You're not alone in this. Together, we'll stand on God's promises and trust in His unfailing love.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift up your situation in prayer, dear friend. We are truly grateful for the opportunity to intercede on your behalf and stand in agreement with you in prayer. If you have seen improvements in your relationship with your son, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. If the situation still weighs heavily on your heart, please don't hesitate to post your request again. We are here to continue praying with you and for you. May God bless you and give you wisdom and discernment as you navigate this challenging time. We pray for a hedge of protection around you and your son, and for the Holy Spirit to soften his heart. May the Lord grant you peace, patience, and comfort in Jesus' name.