Relationship

[Speirolex]

Pray that my boyfriend Chris prioritizes me and considers my feelings more in love. I’m selfless with him and I give freely. I want him to have the same spirit of giving as me. We work well together and I appreciate his sacrifices. Also pray that he forgives more quickly and doesn’t walk in the offense of others. Pray that we are married quickly to be upright with God. I thank God for him and I want to see us both blessed more.

 

[Articles]

We understand your desire for a more reciprocal relationship with Chris. However, we must begin by addressing a few things to align our prayers with biblical principles. We believe there is a problem with your understanding of Chris's role in your relationship. Remember, Ephesians 5:25 WEB states, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her." This is a two way-street. You are to treat Chris this way as well. We understand your reason for asking for Chris to treat you similarly, but we must first question the emphasis on this.

When we further consider your request, we understand your good intentions. However, it is essential for you to understand that true love is a choice and not just a feeling. WEB 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 tells us "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." The manner in which you are addressing the request strongly suggests that you are being dominated by envy and resentment. Furthermore, James 3:16 tells us to not be resentful, envious, etc. "For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy."

Let's first lift up Chris in prayer. Our desire should be for him to become a God fearing man who will be the type of future husband you need. Our father will bestow on him the love needed for Christ to be the head of your family after marriage.

Lord, in Jesus' name, we ask for our dear brother Chris to become more of what you would have him to be. Proverbs 4:23 states 'Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Lord, we ask for the forgiving spirit to be in him more so he will not harbor or deal with offenses.

However, we must also pray for you, Spiritual growth is a two-way process. You must also work to better fulfill your role in the relationship as a 'help meet' for Chris as the LORD intended. Genesis 2:18 states "Yahweh God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.' " We must pray for our own Father to give us the ability to fill your role in the relationship as we know him to be able to do for us, if we ask.

As with any relationship, we must prioritize humility and understanding. Remember 1 John 4:19: "WE love HIM, because HE first loved us".

We must also point out this important fact. You must refrain from acts of fornication with Chris and find forgiveness for any previous actions that defiled your body. The Scriptures you must remember are 1 Thessalonians 4:3,4 (WEB) "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor". Furthermore in 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB) it says: "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body".

We must pray together that, if it is God's will, this relationship leads to a Godly marriage:

Lord, we pray your will be done in the union of your children. We ask that we follow His plan for marriage and do so with Christs' blessing. Father we see the relationship between Chris and Spiritualistic as a Godly union for a spouse and we ask for you to work towards this end.

Regarding whether you should be married quickly to be right with God, we need to remember scripture that tells us not to marry if we are burning with passion as this defiles the body. If the passions are too great, we may have problems with lust and fornication as they too are a sin. In fact, passion is not a reason to be married because we are to be chaste, defilement of the body is never justified through marriage.

In response to IJN not being mentioned. Let's remember John 14:6(WEB) "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." And in Acts 4:12 (WEB) "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!”". "Therefore, God also highly exalted him, and gave to him the name which is above every name", Philippians 2:9 (WEB). We must remember to make requests explicitly in Jesus' name and avoid general spirituality.

Finally, remember also that God's timing is always perfect and He will not withhold anything from his children. We must also take heed what the LORD says in Mathew 7:7-8.
7 “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives; and he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks it will be opened".

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we're praying with you. We understand your heart's desire for a balanced, loving relationship with Chris. Let's remember, love is a choice, not just a feeling. It's about patience, kindness, and putting others first (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). We're asking our Father to help both of you grow in this love, that you may encourage and uplift each other as God intended (Genesis 2:18).

Lord, in Jesus' name, we pray for Chris and you. Help Chris to be the loving, forgiving, and patient partner you desire him to be. Help him to understand and fulfill his role as a future husband, loving you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). And Lord, help you to grow in your role as a 'helper suitable' for Chris, supporting and encouraging him as only you can (Genesis 2:18).

We're also praying for humility and understanding in your relationship. Remember, we love because He first loved us (1 John 4:19). And we're asking for forgiveness for any past acts of fornication, trusting in God's grace and the cleansing power of Jesus' blood (1 Thessalonians 4:3-4, 1 Corinthians 6:18).

Lastly, we're praying for God's will in your relationship. If it's His will, may this union lead to a Godly marriage, blessed by Christ (Matthew 7:7-8). We trust in His perfect timing and ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[RICHARD22]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Nonnor]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your boyfriend Chris up in prayer, asking God to strengthen your relationship and draw both of your hearts closer to Him. We are grateful that you have given us the opportunity to intercede on your behalf and stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If you have seen improvements in your relationship and Chris has started to prioritize you more and consider your feelings, we would love to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice with you and give glory to God for His faithfulness.

If you feel that your request has not yet been answered, we want to assure you that we are still here for you. Please share an updated prayer request, and we will continue to pray with you and for you. We are believing in faith that God is working in your relationship, cultivating a spirit of giving, forgiveness, and unity between you and Chris.

We are also praying for God's will to be done in your desires for marriage, and that He would guide you both in His perfect timing. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Trust in His love and faithfulness for you both, knowing that He wants to bless you and give you a hope-filled future.

May God continue to bless you and Chris as you seek Him together, growing in love and committed to His purposes. We are praying for your relationship to be a testimony of God's grace and love, ultimately bringing glory to His name. Keep seeking Him, trusting in His promises, and believing in faith that He is working all things together for your good. In Jesus Name.