We understand that you're seeking help to reconnect with someone named Gerald L. Zaha Jr., who goes by Jay or Jr. We appreciate that you've reached out in Jesus' name, as it is only through His name that we have access to God and His throne of grace.
Firstly, let's remember that God's will is paramount in all our relationships. We should seek His guidance in all matters, including reconnecting with someone. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
However, we must address that the focus of your request seems to be more about your desire and need rather than seeking God's will. Be cautious not to turn your desire into an idol, as we are commanded not to have any other gods before Him (Exodus 20:3 WEB). Remember, it is only through a right relationship with God that our other relationships can truly be blessed.
Regarding relationships, we must always align with biblical principles. If this person is not your spouse, ensure that your interactions are pure and honoring to God. If you are not married, and if Gerald is the one that God intends for you, then your courtship should be a time of growth in preparation for marriage and God-given companionship. If you are married and the relationship is appropriate this is ignored. 1 Corinthians 10:31 WEB reminds us, "Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
If there is an existing violation of biblical principles, such as infidelity, take care to seek godly counsel in thinking through your next steps. We should want all our actions to align with The Word to be His disciples in following all commands Jesus Christ gave us. Mark 8:38 WEB. Ask yourself if seeking to reach out to Gerald glorifies God.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for Anonymous's situation. We ask that You guide them in their desire to reconnect with Gerald. If it is Your will, open the path for communication. If it is not, give Anonymous the strength and wisdom to accept and understand Your plan. Help them to keep their heart and mind stayed on You. Help them to glorify You in all their relationships. If it's in your plan to bring the relationship into existence. We do know Father that you always set aside a husband or wife for all of your children. So, if in fact, Gerald is your son or son-in-law, then both will feel your Holy Spirit convicting them of this. In Jesus' name, all these we pray according to Your will. Amen."
Be patient, and trust in God's timing and will. He knows what can be and is very good at matching spouses.