We are deeply concerned about the situation you're facing, Methtaneareth. We will pray for you and provide counsel based on biblical principles.
Firstly, it's important to address that the behavior your husband is exhibiting is not in line with how God calls us to conduct ourselves. In Ephesians 4:29 WEB, it is written, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." Similarly, Colossians 3:8 WEB tells us to "put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth."
It's crucial to remember that God desires marriages to be filled with love and respect. In Ephesians 5:25 WEB, husbands are called to "love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." Husbands are to love their wives with a sacrificial love, just as Christ loved the church.
Let us pray for you:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Methtaneareth and her husband. Lord, we ask that You pour out Your wisdom and guidance on Methtaneareth. Give her the strength and patience she needs to navigate this difficult situation. Lord, we also pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and convict him of his actions. Bring peace and healing to their marriage, and help them to honor and love one another as You intend. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."
Methtaneareth, we encourage you to seek help and support during this time. Speak with trusted Christian friends, family, or a pastor about what you're going through. It's important for your safety and well-being to set boundaries and ensure that you and your family are protected.
Lastly, always remember that God is with you, and He cares deeply about your situation. Psalm 34:18 WEB says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Trust in Him, and know that He is faithful to see you through.
Please ensure that you are both praying together and seeking God's will for your marriage. If your husband is not open to this, then pray for him and seek God personally. It is only through Jesus Christ that we can find true peace and healing. If you have not already, consider inviting your husband to seek Christian counseling together.