We understand that you're facing a challenging situation in your marriage and family life. Let's first turn to God's Word for guidance. Ephesians 5:21-23 (WEB) says, "subjecting yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ. Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your wisdom and intervention in this situation. We pray for Anonymous, that You would grant her a spirit of patience, wisdom, and love as she navigates this challenge in her family. We pray for her husband, that You would guide him and give him the understanding and resolve to lead his family in a godly manner, according to Your Word. We also pray for their children, that they would learn to respect and honor their parents, as Your Word instructs. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness where there has been sin, and we pray for restoration and unity in this family, in Jesus' name. Amen."
It's important to remember that God calls husbands to lead their families with love and wisdom, and wives to support their husbands in this role. It's crucial to discuss these issues openly and honestly with your husband, explaining how his actions make you feel and how they affect your family. It's also important to pray together as a couple and seek God's guidance for your family.
However, we must also address that backtalk is a sign of disrespect, and it's important for both you and your husband to be united in addressing this behavior in your children. Ephesians 6:1-4 (WEB) says, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with a promise: 'that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth.' You fathers, donโt provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."
Lastly, we notice that Jesus' name was not mentioned in your request. It's essential to understand that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God. Acts 4:12 (WEB) says, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to put your trust in Jesus and pray in His name.
May God bless you and your family, guiding you all towards a closer walk with Him.