Relationship

[Anonymous]

Pray for helping my boyfriend change his ways. Very selfish to me. Always needs from Me but never supports me even in simple task. He will not take accountability for his actions. Often he falls backwards in having faith in us. Get bored and plays around in the streets. Always finding justification for bad behavior. I accept him back and continue to support his businesses. He never pays for the work done. He takes advantage of my kindness. Thinks he doesn't have to answer to anyone. Lives at home at 47 years old and takes no responsibility here or there. I have tried for 6 years to help him to mature. It has all failed. Please pray he sees his evil ways is not the answer to a blessed relationship. He runs also back to an ex when he can't validation here. He a mess but I pray and try to help him on so many levels. His family hates me, thinks I'm to old for him. He never invites me out to family gathering. Hates me to even talk about being in a committed relationship or discuss getting engaged. Please pray for us.

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle and commend you for your patience and efforts in this relationship. However, let us first align this situation with biblical principles. The Word of God instructs us, "Do not be deceived: 'Evil company corrupts good habits.'" (1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB). It is crucial to discern when a relationship is harming our spiritual and emotional well-being.

Your boyfriend's actions—his selfishness, lack of accountability, and unfaithfulness—are not indicative of a godly relationship. God calls us to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). However, forgiveness does not mean continually accepting harmful behavior.

Moreover, the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and that any intimate relationship should be within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4). If your boyfriend is running back to an ex, this is a form of infidelity and is not acceptable in God's eyes.

Let us pray together:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up this relationship to You, Lord. We ask that You open the eyes of [Anonymous's boyfriend] to see the error of his ways. Convict him with Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and guide him towards true repentance and change. Help [Anonymous] to have the strength and wisdom to discern Your will for this relationship. Protect her heart, Lord, and provide her with the peace that surpasses all understanding. If this relationship is not Your will, give her the courage to walk away. We pray that both of them will come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ if they haven't already, and that their lives will be transformed by Your power. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to seek God's will in this matter. It is essential to be in a relationship that honors God and builds you up spiritually. "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33 WEB). Remember, God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He wants what is best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Lastly, ensure that you are both seeking God individually and together. A relationship built on the foundation of Jesus Christ is key to a blessed and godly union. If you have not already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ and encouraging your boyfriend to do the same. "Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9 WEB).

 

[Corsosh]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been reading your post and our hearts go out to you. It's clear that you've been patient and supportive, but it's also important to recognize when a relationship isn't healthy. We're here to lift you up in prayer, sister.

Let's ask God to open your boyfriend's eyes to see the harm his actions are causing, both to you and to your relationship. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict him and guide him towards change and repentance. Give him the strength to take responsibility for his actions and to support you, as a partner should. We also pray for your discernment, dear one. May God grant you the wisdom to know when to stay and when to walk away, always seeking His will above all else.

We understand that his family might not accept you, but remember, God sees your heart and knows your efforts. It's not your responsibility to change them, only to love them as God loves you.

Let's keep praying together:

"Father, we come to you in Jesus' name. We lift up this relationship, asking you to reveal the truth to [his name], to soften his heart, and to guide him towards change. Give [his name] the courage to take responsibility and to love [your name] as Christ loves the Church. Protect [your name]'s heart, Lord, and give her the strength to make decisions that honor you. Help us both to seek your will above our own, and to trust in your perfect plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, and we'll keep you in our prayers. Trust in God, and He will guide your path.

 

[Chenayenn]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[CJL80]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[CassG]

Praying for you in Jesus name

 

[Anonymous]

Pray for helping my boyfriend change his ways. Very selfish to me. Always needs from Me but never supports me even in simple task. He will not take accountability for his actions. Often he falls backwards in having faith in us. Get bored and plays around in the streets. Always finding justification for bad behavior. I accept him back and continue to support his businesses. He never pays for the work done. He takes advantage of my kindness. Thinks he doesn't have to answer to anyone. Lives at home at 47 years old and takes no responsibility here or there. I have tried for 6 years to help him to mature. It has all failed. Please pray he sees his evil ways is not the answer to a blessed relationship. He runs also back to an ex when he can't validation here. He a mess but I pray and try to help him on so many levels. His family hates me, thinks I'm to old for him. He never invites me out to family gathering. Hates me to even talk about being in a committed relationship or discuss getting engaged. Please pray for us.

Praying for you and your boyfriend. May God change him. Send you some Bible verses for strong faith.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.