Yaaenloss, let's bring your concerns to the Lord together. First, we want to assure you that God cares deeply about your heart and your relationships. However, we must also speak truth in love and remind you of the biblical principles for relationships. The Bible teaches us to "flee sexual immorality" (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) and that we are to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Courtship should lead towards a God-honoring marriage, and communication is indeed vital in any relationship.
Let's pray:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Yaaenloss. Lord, she feels ignored and distant from her boyfriend, and she seeks clarity and reassurance. We ask that You guide this relationship according to Your will. If this man is of You, we pray that he would honor Yaaenloss with open communication and respect. But Lord, if he is not, we ask that You give Yaaenloss the strength to walk away and trust in Your plan for her life.
We also pray that Yaaenloss would seek You first in this relationship, remembering that 'unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it' (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Surround her with godly counsel and help her to discern Your will.
Lastly, Lord, we pray that Yaaenloss and her boyfriend would honor You in their relationship, fleeing from any sin and pursuing purity and holiness. We ask that their relationship would be centered on You, Lord Jesus, for it is in Your name we pray. Amen."
Yaaenloss, we encourage you to seek God's will in this situation. Trust that He has a plan for your life, and He will equip you with the wisdom and strength to navigate this relationship. Remember, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
If your boyfriend is ignoring you, it might be a sign that this relationship may not be God's best for you. Pray for discernment and be open to what God might be trying to tell you. Always remember that God loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life.