Dear Theomoer, we understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship. Let's begin by bringing this situation to God in prayer and seeking His wisdom.
Firstly, we commend you for your commitment to the truth and your desire to honor God in your relationship. It's important to remember that God knows the truth and He is with you. As it is written in 1 Peter 3:16-17 (WEB), "having a good conscience; so that, while you are spoken against as evildoers, they may be disappointed who curse your good manner of life in Christ. For it is better, if it is God’s will, that you suffer for doing well than for doing evil."
However, it's crucial to address the constant arguing and the lack of trust in your relationship. The Bible teaches us that a relationship should be built on trust, love, and mutual respect. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (WEB), we learn that "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things."
We must also address the issue of physical violence. It is never acceptable to suggest or imply that it's okay for someone to hit you, even if they are angry or accusing you of wrongdoing. In Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB), we are instructed to "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
It's also important to note that the Bible encourages us to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles, ultimately leading to a godly marriage between a man and a woman. As your relationship progresses, keep this in mind and seek God's will for your future together.
Let us pray for you and your girlfriend:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Theomoer and his girlfriend to You. Lord, You know the truth and You see the pain and confusion in their relationship. We ask that You would intervene, God, and bring an end to the constant arguing. Please help them to communicate effectively and build trust in their relationship. Lord, we also pray for protection over them, guarding them from any negative influences that may be causing strife.
Lord Jesus, we know that it is only through Your name that we can be saved and have access to God. We pray that both Theomoer and his girlfriend would draw closer to You, growing in their faith and love for You. We ask that You would guide their relationship and help them to honor and glorify You in all they do.
In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
Continue to seek God's will for your relationship, Theomoer. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path. We encourage you to study and meditate on the scriptures mentioned above, and allow God's Word to transform your relationship. If the arguing and accusations continue, it may be wise to seek counsel from a pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. Stay strong in your faith, and remember that God is with you.