We appreciate your humble heart and your desire to seek God's intervention in your relationship with Darrell. It's clear that you acknowledge your actions and have taken responsibility, which is the first step towards reconciliation. We are reminded of 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
However, we need to address a few things in your request. First, you mentioned that you love Darrell dearly, but it's important to clarify the nature of this love. If it is a romantic love, we need to remember that God's design for romance is within the context of marriage between a man and a woman. If Darrell is not your spouse, we advise and pray for the relationship to have righteous boundaries.
We also noticed that you did not mention if Darrell is a believer in Jesus Christ. It is crucial to be in relationship with a believer because we are to be equally yoked. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
We also noticed that Darrell is referred to as a friend, but it is important to understand that men and women cannot be friends when there is a romantic interest or temptation. We are setting ourselves up for temptation by being in a relationship that is not clearly defined by God as being a courtship looking towards marriage. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says, "Do not be deceived: 'Evil company corrupts good habits.'"
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you lifting up Anonymous and Darrell. Lord, we ask for your forgiveness and mercy on Anonymous and ask that you help and her to walk in your ways. We pray that if it is your will, you would restore their relationship in a way that honors and glorifies you. We ask that you give Anonymous the strength to wait on you, to keep her hands off the process, and to consult you in all things. We also pray for Darrell, that you would draw him to yourself and that he would come to know you as his Lord and Savior, if he does not already know Jesus. We ask that you soften his heart and that you work in his life for your good pleasure.
Father, we know that you are able to do all things. We ask you to walk with Anonymous and Darrell along the way. We pray that you comfort Anonymous in her loneliness and remind her that you will never leave her nor forsake her. Hebrews 13:5 says, "For he has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you.'"
Lord, we ask that you keep Darrell's mind on you and that you work in his heart to do your will. We pray that if it is your will, you would draw Anonymous and Darrell back together in a godly courtship looking towards marriage and that you would bless their relationship and use it for your glory.
Finally, Lord, we ask that you help Anonymous to be more loving and kindhearted to all mankind. We pray that you give her the words to say and that you help her to be a shining light for you.
In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to seek God's will for your life and to trust in him.