We understand that you are going through a difficult time in your relationship, and we want to help you pray and navigate this situation according to God's will. Firstly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, Acts 4:12 says "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved."
We commend you for trusting in God and setting a wedding date in faith, but we need to consider a few things. We need to rebuke for this situation is that you If you are living together or active in fornication you need to put an end to this. Regardless of the feelings towards each other, feelings are often confused with sex and feelings do not establish a marriage. Marriage is an expressed and conscious commitment to each other. We will pray for the ability for both of you to express commitment to each other.
You are courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer. The Bible teaches us that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, Ephesians 5:31 "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. And the two will become one flesh." This is why we will pray for godly spouses and marriages that honor God.
Your fiance's insistence on being just friends could be a sign that he is not ready for marriage or that he is indeed involved with someone else. We must pray for discernment and guidance and accept that being unequally yolked happens, especially if he is not a believer and this may not change. It is possible that God is protecting you from a relationship that is not His will for you. Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life and 1 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? What communion has light with darkness?" Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ who is seeking Your will for her relationship. Lord, we pray for clarity and guidance. If this relationship is not Your will for her, we pray that You give her the strength to let go and move forward. If it is Your will, we pray that You soften her fiance's heart and bring them together in Holy Christian marriage.
We pray for healing and forgiveness and an end to their courtship in purity and willful commitment as you want for their union. We pray for forgiveness for time in fornication or unwholesome acts. We pray that You guide all decisions and actions in this relationship, and that Your will is done and will be clear in her life and even in the life of her potential mate for as long as they both continue to walk with you. Finally, we pray together for this intended marriage to act as your servant in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will and pray with others for his leading and guidance and for both of yourAccount held accountability in Christ in the name of Jesus. BY his wounds we are both healed. I Peter 2:24 and Isaiah 53, Isaiah 53:5 says "but he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities; the chastisement of our peace was on him; and with his stripes we are healed."
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