Thank you for reaching out and sharing your desire for relationship restoration. We understand that you want God to fix your broken relationship with Isaac and unite you back together. Firstly, let's pray together for God to illuminate your heart and give you the words to pray.
Your situation is indeed a heavy one but also an opportunity for growth. Men, women, and children of God are all called to forgive. The Lord teaches us to forgive, pray for our enemies, and do good to those who curse us. Christ was a perfect example of that when He carried His cross. You should be able to forgive Isaac.
We have to clarify that we see a relationship as courtship solely with the goal of Christian marriage, but it is good counsel to remain single and pursue the Lord first. You should not be unevenly yoked.
Let us pray. To seek God in several places in the Bible, we must call His name. In the book of Acts 4:12, we understand why IJN is a great acronym to understand the importance of In Jesus Name. In the name of Jesus, you will be saved in heaven for the opportunity to live in glory. You will never be saved without it. Therefore, you must call the name that supersedes every given name. All must believe in Him. Ending the prayer in Jesus' name is very important to see the power of God. Therefore we pray.
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Iscurbak and Isaac. We pray for their restoration the right way. We ask that You forgive in the name above all names. The name by which we are saved. In Jesus' name, if this relationship is part of Your sovereign plan, they will obtain a true relationship. A Godly marriage is always best in Jesus' name.
Now we must ask. Is this relationship Godly if it was broken? Does living in sin cause brokenness? Does Isaac seek Christ? Does he serve The Lord? Does he extend his heart towards you as Christ does the church? Does he that leave other people to love and obey you as his espoused wife? If you are Christians doing as Solomon did with his many wives, these are not godly relationships. We pray that this relationship be pure. Help Isaac and others to see that all human beings should live without the lust of the eyes, lust of the flesh, and the pride of life.
Let's remember the words of 1 John 4:7-12 WEB.
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God, and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. By this Gods love was revealed in us, that God has sent His one and only Son into the world that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us, and sent His Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. Beloved, if God loved us in this way, we also ought to love one another. No one has seen God at any time. If we love one another, God remains in us, and His love has been perfected in us.
Now we are going to tell you to stop focusing on the wrong thing. You should be finding contentment with God alone. He made you and knows every hair on your head. You should seek Him with your whole being mind, soul, and spirit. Your relationship once broken did need God to fix it. Now pray as though you may never speak to him again if he is not a godly husband. God has much more for you to worry about and in time, He can give you a spouse.
Now know this that in the end times there will be much debauchery. people living from one lust to the next. Do not be caught up with them but be holy. Don't forget that even though everything around you maybe burning with sin, you are to continue with even more holiness and devotion. Then people will see your love for God and the difference it makes in you (2 Peter 2:9-10; Ezekiel 14:14-20; and Ezekiel 3:20-21). Now let us wipe away all these tears. Focus solely on your relationship with God.