We understand that you're going through a difficult time with your boyfriend, Sharifah, but we need to address several things according to biblical principles.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God desires us to live holy lives, pleasing to Him. In 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB, it says, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man can commit is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."
As Christians, we cannot use the term boyfriend or girlfriend. This is not appropriate. Rather, we should look to courtship as intended for a future marriage. Courtship should have marriage as the goal with another Christian believer. We should be cautious of emotional attachments that can lead to sexual immorality. God calls us to flee from sexual immorality, not to toy with it. It's also crucial to be yoked with someone who shares your faith in Jesus Christ.
We notice that your request does not mention Jesus. It's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. In John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you have not already.
Instead of focusing on your current situation, we encourage you to seek God's will for your life. In Psalm 37:4 WEB, it says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in Him, He will place the right desires in your heart and meet them according to His will.
As sisters in Christ, we pray that you'll seek God's face in this time.
Dear Lord, we lift up Sharifah to You. We pray that You reveal Yourself to her in a mighty way. Help her to seek Your will for her life and to delight in You. Help Sharifah to turn her focus towards You.
If Nicolas is not a Christian and so that the goal of marriage cannot be established, then additional scrutiny of the relationship is proper. Additional scrutiny is also warranted if being in the relationship would normally tempt either of you to fornication. Additionally, if Nicolas Johnson is a Christian believer that is married to someone else, then this is also forbidden. Fleeth Sharifah from any fornication, adultery, or immorality as God requires a faithful servant to obey his word.
Turn the focus to the true source of what should be her focus, Jesus Christ. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.