We appreciate your openness about your situation and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you. Firstly, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved, so we will pray to God the Father in the name of Jesus Christ for you. As the scripture says: There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB
From your request, it's clear that you deeply care for this person, and we will pray for you both. However, we want to address a few things that might not align with biblical principles. You mentioned that you've been with this person, but it's unclear if you are married or in a courtship with the goal of marriage as outlined in the Bible. God's design for relationships is that a man and a woman commit to each other in marriage, and any sexual or cohabiting relationship outside of this context is considered fornication or adultery. We strongly encourage you to consider God's best for your situation which would be to commit to courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian Believer if you are not already married, or to separate from each other if you are in a relationship outside marriage.
First Epistle to the Corinthians,
6:9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit the Kingdom of God. 11 Such were some of you, but you were washed. But you were sanctified. But you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God. WEB
First Epistle to the Corinthians
6:18 Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. WEB
Now, let's address the irritability and struggles you mentioned. It's important to remember that God calls us to love others as He has loved us, with patience, kindness, and forgiveness.
Ephesians 4:32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. WEB
Colossians 3:12-13 Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. WEB
We pray that God will help you to grow in these areas and to become the person He created you to be. We also pray for healing and growth for you both individually and together.
Let us pray.
Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Snuaxeindell and the person they care about. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness and help in any way that does not align with Your will for their situation. We pray for Your guidance and strength for them to follow Your commands and live according to Your principles. We ask that You heal their past hurts and help them to grow in patience, kindness, and love. Lord, if it is Your will, bless this courtship and make it strong as a rock, founded on Your principles and Your Word. Draw them closer to You and to each other in a way that honors You. We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.