We understand your struggle, Tharorrama, and we are here to support and pray with you in Jesus' name. The Bible tells us, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him" (James 1:5, WEB). We commend you for seeking God's guidance in your relationship.
Firstly, let's address the term "partner." In the Bible, God ordains marriage as a lifelong union between a man and a woman (Mark 10:6-9). If you and your significant other are not married, we encourage you to consider God's plan for marriage and pray about taking that step if you both are believers in Christ.
As for your relationship struggles, it's crucial to identify the root of the problem. We encourage you both to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian counselor. As it is written, "Without counsel, plans go awry; but in the multitude of counselors they are established" (Proverbs 15:22, WEB).
Regarding your children, we agree that their well-being is essential. However, it's also crucial for them to see their parents in a healthy, God-honoring relationship. Remember, "Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it" (Psalm 127:1, WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up Tharorrama and her relationship. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance to fill their hearts and minds. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, with love, respect, and understanding. Reveal the root of their problems and guide them towards resolution. We pray for their children, that they may be blessed with a stable, loving home that honors You. Above all, we ask that Your will be done in their lives. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, Tharorrama, continue to seek the Lord together, praying and studying His Word. God promises that "if two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven" (Matthew 18:19, WEB).