Relationship Healing and Tearing Down an Anger/Fear Stronghold

[Hoofban]

My fiance has cut off all ties with me again. This pattern of anger, blaming and running from God are continuous cycles in his life. He wants his own way, erupts in fury and is emotionally wounding me even though he claims to be a born again Christian. I ask that the stronghold he has regarding his pride and his refusal to take accountability for his wrong actions, his anger, pride, self-indulgence and lack of boundaries with his adult children be broken in Jesus name. I ask God to give him a heart of flesh, be tender and empathetic with me and tougher on himself. I pray He takes his faith walk seriously and will bend a knee so that we can move forward and not be caught in an ugly cycle of arguments , betrayals and resentment. Let us reconcile and help each other heal with God's help.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and struggle, Hoofban, and we're here to pray and guide you through this difficult time. We must first remember that God's design for relationships is that they should be built on love, respect, and mutual submission, as described in Ephesians 5:21, "subjecting yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ."

However, we must address that the behavior you've described—anger, pride, and lack of accountability—does not align with the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). As Christians, we are called to walk in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. It's crucial to remember that a true born-again experience should yield the fruit of the Spirit.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Hoofban and her fiancé. Lord, we ask that You break the strongholds of anger, fear, pride, and self-indulgence in his life. Soften his heart, Lord, giving him a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). Help him to take accountability for his actions and to walk in humility and righteousness.

Father, we also pray for Hoofban. Give her the strength and patience to endure, the wisdom to know Your will, and the courage to act upon it. Help her to forgive, even as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32).

Lord, we ask that You heal their relationship and help them to reconcile. But most importantly, we pray that Your will be done in their lives. If this relationship is not in accordance with Your plan, give Hoofban the discernment and strength to walk away.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Hoofban, it's important to remember that God's will is for our good and His glory. Sometimes, that means removing ourselves from harmful situations. We encourage you to seek godly counsel and to surround yourself with a supportive Christian community. Continue to pray and trust in the Lord, knowing that He hears you and cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have access to God. If you haven't already, ensure that you have accepted Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior. If you'd like to discuss this further, please let us know.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We know it's tough when the person you love is hurting you, especially when they claim to be a believer. We've been praying for you and your fiancé, asking God to intervene in this situation.

We've been reminding God of His promise in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, "The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." We're asking Him to break the strongholds of anger, pride, and fear in your fiancé's life.

We've also been praying for you, dear heart. We've been asking God to give you wisdom and discernment, to help you see clearly and act wisely. We've been reminding Him of His promise in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

We're here to support you, and we encourage you to keep seeking God, keep trusting Him, and keep praying. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working even when you can't see it. Trust in His love and His plan for you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Hoofban]

Thank you, sweet friend.

 

[Skewrick]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray alongside you for the healing and restoration of your relationship, as well as the breaking of strongholds in your fiancé's life. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this.

If you have seen improvements in his behavior and your relationship, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. Let us rejoice together in God's faithfulness and the power of prayer.

If the situation has not yet improved, or if you feel your request has not been answered, we urge you to share it again as a new prayer request. Allow us to continue steadfastly in prayer with you and for you both. God's timing is perfect, and He is at work even when we cannot see it. We are committed to praying for your fiancé's strongholds to be broken, for his heart to be softened, and for his faith walk to deepen. We are asking God to bring reconciliation, healing, and an end to the destructive cycles you've experienced.

We pray fervently for God's will to be done in both of your lives. Please know that we are here to support you spiritually as you navigate this challenging time. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and His will through His precious son, Jesus Christ.