Relationship healing and salvation

[Taemay]

Hello I'm Stephanie. I have a prayer request. February of last year, my Boyfriend Brian had broken up with me after 14 years. He said was mainly because of communication
problems. And that was true. I was too
nervous and afraid to talk to him over the
last two years of our relationship. I was
afraid to talk about what was on my mind
and afraid what he might think. Then I
would get clouded with irritation and rudeness sometimes towards him because i was nervous and was selfish always having him make the first move with affection. I was jealous and wishing I was open and outgoing towards him and others in a loving a bold way out of love. Also since we were living together, I felt it was time to get married and I wanted to talk about Jesus and what the Bible says about fornication and cohabitation. And it seemed he wasn't interested and it caused no peace in my heart to be able to approach him with these discussions and I felt I always had to tippy toe around the topic. Including more on saving sex before marriage and about Jesus. The only time I would bring it up is when he would initiate sex or being at his friends our because his friends were open people and it made me open to talk about these things in front of him. He admitted there one day that he struggled with faith and believing in Jesus while we were at his friends, but he never told me. And he was also hurt because I was open to his friends instead if him becauseI was supposed to be his best friend. Which hurt me when he told me after he broke up with me. And the other factor was since he struggled with faith and believing. He said he couldn't follow me and wasn't we're I'm at. And ever since then I've been pondering why would one person in the relationship falls out of love with the other after many many years? After all the memories and experiences and mild stones and seasons of life we've gone through. And my ex couldn't rough it out with me and couldn't fight for the relationship if he loved me. Which I believe when he would tell me and when I asked him. After 14 years and counting I thought we would get through everything together and be together forever. (Could it be a spiritual thing in his heart and that he's outside of Christ that he couldn't
love me?) And he felt that I should do something with my life to get married. But I'll admit there was procrastination in my life on what to do in my life that left me discouraged and lazy. Everything hurt him and was stressed over time and eventually lead to him separating from me. We had little contact during our separation although he still cared and loves me. But was not in love with me anymore. Which was devastating to me. But I was trying to slowly reconcile with him by taking the first step in starting over with small talks to him and seeing if our relationship could possibly grow again but he told me to don't get my hopes up because he doesn't know if we'll get back together and if the "in love" with me will come back. and I struggled with patience and trying to make something work that was already damage. And he eventually ended all contact so he'd won't hurt me. He said we weren't in the place of love and happiness because I've changed and wanted to do things the right way and he understood why. But he said he couldn't follow me and wasn't where I'm at. I've heard the Gospel many times but I struggle with the belief that God has chosen me. and my lack following Jesus and afraid to. Although we're broken up. So can your ministry pray for us?
I'm still sad about this. And lonely. I still miss and love him. And I pray and ask to pray for God to bring us together in a new relationship that would honor him. If it's not his will, pray he will give me peace in my heart to move on to boldly follow him and trust him with my life. And if, not yet, pray for patience and not to take his blessing for granted.
I don't want him to live his life not know Jesus and me too. And I did share the Gospel with him a few times and pray it would take effect. Thank you for what you ministry team does for the glory of God and your time. God bless.

 

[Articles]

decisions.

Heavenly Father, we come to You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your help and guidance for Stephanie. We ask that You would soften Brian's heart and open the lines of communication between them. Help them to be honest and vulnerable with each other, and to listen to each other with understanding and compassion. We pray that You would give them the courage to talk about their feelings and to work through the issues that have caused them to drift apart. We ask that You would restore their relationship and bring them closer together. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.

Prayer Focus: God I ask You in Jesus' name bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Heal me in every area of my life. God bless me with Your favor, joy, knowledge, wisdom, peace, protection, prosperity, strength, and success in all You have called me to do. And bless me to do it in the spirit of excellence for Your glory. God bless me to know You, love You, and strengthen me to live my life to honor and please You. God cleansed me of everything in my life that breaks your heart. Let me be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle that I live. Let the world see that Jesus Christ is my Savior and Lord of ALL of my life. Protect me God from all the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who truly love me, care about me, want Your best for me, and pray Your best for me. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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