Relationship failure

[Anonymous]

I was into a secret relationship with a pastor for a year now but he's leaving me to marry another next month 26th because of family pressure.

I pray the God of pastor Jerry Eze answer for me that the Marriage be cancelled and let me have my man back to the glory of God that our joy be complete in Christ Jesus .

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorrowful to hear about the pain and heartache you are experiencing, and we want to address this situation with compassion and truth based on biblical principles. First, we want to acknowledge that the relationship you've described is not aligned with God's design for several reasons.

The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality and any appearance of immorality or sin. Engaging in a secret relationship with a pastor, who is supposed to be a spiritual leader and example, is not honoring to God and can lead would-be Christian Believers to question the sincerity of the Church as a whole. Moreover, the fact that he is leaving you to marry another due to family pressure suggests a lack of integrity and commitment. This individual is already planning a marriage with someone else after a courtship or relationship. Scripture warns us not to act immorally because we are members of Christ's body in 1 Corinthians 6:15 WEB. 'Do you know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be!' and in Galatians 5:19 WEB, 'They are sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Lord%u2019s Kingdom'; and again in Colossians 3:5 WEB, Put to death therefore your members which are on the earth: sexual immorality, uncleanness, depraved passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry; We are temples of the Holy Spirit and should not engage in practices that defile our bodies or God's holy temple.

Additionally, praying for a Godly marriage to be canceled is not in accordance with God's will. Marriage is a sacred and holy covenant, if accepted and made in a godly way according to biblical principles and the Gospel of Jesus Christ. If this woman loves the soon to be married pastor and he loves her, it is better for everyone if they complete the holy ceremony and this marriage be completed according to God's holy design and command. We should pray for God's will to be done in all circumstances, even if it's painful for us. Therefore, we should not advise anyone to pray for an action that is not aligned with God's Word and biblical principles. The Bible teaches that a person who loves and abides in Christ seeks the well-being of others; it is selfish and contrary to God's will to pray for a marriage to be canceled for one's own benefit. We should want the best for others and trust that God has a plan and purpose for each of our lives. In Ephesians 4:32 WEB, 'Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you' and in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, 'Love is patient and is kind; love doesn%u2019t envy. Love doesn%u2019t brag, is not proud, doesn%u2019t behave itself inappropriately, doesn%u2019t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn%u2019t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.'

Furthermore, it's crucial to understand that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father and it is only by Jesus that we can be saved. John 14:6 WEB: 'Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."' This means that prayers should be directed to God the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, not in the name of any other person or entity, per the Holy Gospel.

In light of these truths from the Bible and the Gospel of Jesus Christ please pray to God along these lines instead of a more selfish desire:

Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up the situation and pray for your will to be done in the lives of all involved. We pray for healing and restoration for the individuals directly affected by this situation. We ask for your guidance and direction for all involved, regardless of whether the relationship was a positive thing or not. We pray that everyone will seek you, be positive, and be a benefit to the world and our relationship with you. We pray for the pastor and everyone involved, that you would give them strength and wisdom to lead and live in a manner that honors you and the Gospel of Jesus Christ and be pleasing to You. We ask that you would surround them with godly counsel and accountability. We pray for the woman who is preparing for marriage, that you would bless her and give her peace and assurance in this time.

Father, we also pray for the one who submitted this request, that you would heal their broken heart and help them to move forward in your will. We pray that you would reveal to them your purpose and plan for their life through the Holy Spirit. We ask that you would help them to seek you first and to trust in your goodness and faithfulness. We pray that you would bring godly individuals into their life to support and encourage them, people who would help them to know how they need to live to be pleasing to You. We ask that you would help them to forgive those who have hurt them and to walk in love and obedience to your Word.

In all things regarding the salvation of the souls of living saints, we ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, and for his sake. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you and also hold you accountable in your Christian journey, including Biblical advice and discussions. Remember that God loves you deeply and has a purpose and plan for your life. Trust in Him, and seek Him with all your heart. If someone discourages you from submitting to the will of God or His commandments, Jesus Christ, or the Gospel by the words used, their tone of voice, or a naysaying rebuke; please discard and ignore these as Satan uses direct means to accomplish his goals. Very often on the other hand, God uses gentle means such as encouragement and guidance. The Gospel of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit are the most positive things for you and for your friends and family.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. Our hearts ache with yours, knowing the pain of a broken relationship, especially when it's with someone we've trusted and loved. We understand the hurt and confusion you're feeling right now.

First, let's turn to our Father in heaven. We ask Him to wrap His loving arms around you, to comfort you in your time of need. We pray for His healing touch to mend your broken heart, and for His wisdom to guide your steps forward.

We also pray for the pastor involved. We ask God to give him the strength to make right choices, to honor His calling, and to live a life that pleases our Lord. We pray for the woman he's to marry, that God would bless their union according to His will.

Remember, God has a purpose and a plan for your life. Trust in Him, seek His face, and He will make your paths straight. Surround yourself with a community of believers who will support, encourage, and hold you accountable in your walk with Christ.

In all things, let's keep our eyes fixed on Jesus. He is our strength, our comfort, and our hope. Trust in Him, and you will find peace and healing.

"Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." - Psalm 55:22

We're here for you, praying with you, and for you.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Camara]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[CJL80]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We feel truly honored that you have shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you during this challenging time. We have been interceding on your behalf, asking the Lord to guide and comfort you.

If you have seen God's intervention in this situation, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. It's always encouraging to witness God's faithfulness and power at work. If the marriage has not been called off and you are still in need of prayer, please share an update with us. We want to continue standing with you in prayer, trusting God for His will and for your joy to be complete in Christ Jesus.

We are reminded that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. He sees the bigger picture and knows what is best for us. We pray that you will experience His peace, wisdom, and guidance during this time. May you continue to seek Him and trust in His unfailing love. We are here for you, praying with you and for you in Jesus Name.