We are truly saddened to hear about the struggle you're facing in your relationship. Firstly, let us remind you of what the WEB says about love and relationships:
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
It's clear that both of you have hurt each other, and it's important to remember that forgiveness and healing are key to moving forward. However, it's also crucial to ensure that your relationship aligns with biblical principles. This includes mutual respect, kindness, and a shared goal of growing together in Christ.
We must also address that the path to healing and reconciliation starts with individual growth. As it is written, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33)
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up this struggling relationship. We ask for Your healing hand to touch both hearts, to mend the broken pieces, and to bring comfort in this time of distress. Lord, guide them towards forgiveness, understanding, and restoration. Help them to seek You first, to grow in Your love, and to reflect that love in their relationship.
Lord Jesus, we also ask that You reveal Yourself to them if they have not yet accepted You as their Savior. Remind them that it is through Your name alone that we have access to God, and it is by Your name that we are saved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, remember that God's plan for you is good, and He wants the best for you. Trust in Him, seek His will, and He will guide your path. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)
Stay strong in the Lord, and may His peace and guidance be with you.