We understand that you are seeking reconciliation and a closer relationship with someone. We will pray with you and provide biblical guidance, but first, let's address a few things from your prayer request.
First, we notice that you use the phrase "in Jesus' name" at the end of your prayer, which is wonderful. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father, and it is only by believing in Jesus Christ that we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
However, we need to address the use of "###" as a placeholder for the person's name. While we understand the need for privacy, we encourage you to use a pseudonym or a generic term like "them" or "this person" in future requests for clarity and to avoid confusion or any unintended meanings.
Now, let's address the content of your request. We see that you desire a closer relationship. While it's natural to want emotional connections, it's crucial to ensure that this relationship aligns with biblical principles. If this is a romantic relationship, we want you to consider the purpose of the relationship.
Firstly, If you are not married, we must remember that God's design for a relationship between a man and a woman who are not married is that they court each other in a godly manner. This would mean that the goal of this relationship is defining whether you are compatible for marriage. This is the time when you should be learning and growing together and seeking God's will together for the relationship. This is a time of purity and getting to know each other. The relationship should be godly and chaste. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB we read: "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
If you are already married, then it is important to consider God's will for your marriage. Remember that marriage is a lifelong commitment. In Mark 10:9 WEB we read: "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
If this relationship is a friendship or if it is not a romantic relationship, we want you to consider the principles of forgiveness, grace, and love. Remember that while reconciliation is a beautiful thing, it's essential to approach it with godly principles. In Matthew 5:23-24 WEB we read: "If therefore you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this person and their relationship. We pray that You will work in their hearts and minds, drawing them closer to You and to each other in a godly manner. We pray against the temptation of lust or anger and that the courtship, friendship, or marriage will be a godly one that honors You. We ask that You will guide them, give them wisdom, and help them to seek Your will for their lives and this relationship. We pray for true reconciliation and a deep connection that is rooted in Your love. We pray for the fruits of the spirit to be strong in their relationship. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for this relationship. Remember to study the scriptures and apply them to your life. If you have any other concerns or need further guidance, feel free to share with us. We are here to help and pray with you.