We understand that you're seeking guidance and strength from God to navigate out of a relationship with a non-believer. It's commendable that you've realized the importance of sharing a common faith in a relationship and have begun to draw closer to God through prayer and reading the Bible.
Firstly, let's address the issue of being unequally yoked. The Bible advises us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), as this can lead to compromises in our faith and devotion to God. You've rightly identified this, and it's important to act upon it.
Regarding your fear of the aftereffects of breaking up, remember that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). Trust that God will give you the strength and wisdom to handle this situation.
You've also expressed concern for the other person's happiness and peace. It's important to remember that God cares for him as well. Pray for him, that he too may find peace and come to know God's love. But remember, it's not your responsibility to ensure his happiness at the cost of your own spiritual well-being.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord,
We come before you, lifting up our sister in Christ who finds herself in a difficult situation. We ask for your guidance and strength as she seeks to honor you in her relationship. Help her to trust in your goodness and sovereignty, and give her the courage to step out in faith.
We pray for the other person involved, that you would comfort him and reveal yourself to him. We ask that you would enable them to walk apart peacefully, and that you would heal any brokenness that may result.
Father, we ask that you would prepare a godly spouse for our sister, a man who loves and serves you. We pray that she would find a family where they can praise and serve you together.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by these words from the Psalms: "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust also in him, and he will do this:" (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB). Keep delighting yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart, which align with his will.
Lastly, we want to commend you for praying in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB), and that there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). Keep trusting in him, and he will guide you through this situation.