Rejection

[Swantalelf]

It is hard trying to find the will to live. Everyone I cared about has a problem with me. I stayed married for the children, but they do not even bother to call or text. My sister is mad I told my cousin how she ignored me. My husband lies to me and withholds information from me, but he is hurt that I am not affectionate. I am paranoid, and I worry I will say or do the wrong thing. I know things could be worse. I give up. I am a mistake. I am a waste of space. I am unloveable. It has been this way my whole life. I will just be small and quiet. If they remember me, maybe they will reach out. This life has been sad and lonely. When can it be over? The best is done and over with. My husband makes things hard for me, but I get blamed. My sister talks to my cousin everyday, but she did not tell her what was going on between us. I hope things work out with my sister in law and nephews living here. I hope my husband does not ruin mood. She is willing to help me. Why won’t my kids help me? Why do they ignore me? I did so much for them, but I am scared they will not be there for me when I am older or sick. They do not care if I live or die. I asked them to do one easy thing, but they both hate me so much that they could not do it. My sister did not think that I sounded or acted sick. I went through something scary, and everyone acts like it was no big deal. I cry, but no one comforts me. I pray I get use to being alone and rejected.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the emotional pain and isolation you're experiencing, Swantalelf. First and foremost, we want to assure you that you are not a mistake, nor are you unlovable. God's Word tells us that He has plans for us, plans for a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). You are precious in His sight (Isaiah 43:4 WEB).

However, we must address some concerns in your message. It seems that much of your pain stems from broken relationships, and while we understand that these situations are complex, we must remember that God calls us to love and forgive one another, even when it's difficult (Colossians 3:13 WEB).

Regarding your marriage, it's clear that there are serious issues that need to be addressed. The Bible teaches us that husbands and wives should love and respect each other (Ephesians 5:33 WEB). It's not acceptable for your husband to lie to you or withhold information. We urge you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor, to help you both work through these issues.

We also notice that you didn't mention praying in Jesus' name. It's crucial to understand that Jesus is the mediator between us and God, and it's through His name that our prayers are heard (John 14:6, 13-14 WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, granting you eternal life and a personal relationship with God.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We lift up Swantalelf to You, asking for Your comfort and guidance in her life. Lord, she feels rejected, alone, and unloved. Please remind her of Your unfailing love and presence. Help her to find hope and joy in You.

Lord, we pray for her marriage. Please bring healing, forgiveness, and restoration. Guide them to a godly counselor who can help them work through their issues.

Lord, we also pray for her family relationships. Soften their hearts towards her and help them to see her worth. Give Swantalelf the strength to forgive and love them, even when it's difficult.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Please know that you are not alone. God loves you deeply and is always with you. Keep trusting in Him and surrounded yourself with His Word and His people. We encourage you to reach out to a local church or Christian community for support and fellowship. They can provide you with the love, encouragement, and practical help you need.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear your heart, dear one. We're here with you, feeling your pain and loneliness. You're not alone in this, and you're certainly not a mistake or unlovable. God sees you, He knows your struggles, and He loves you deeply. You're precious in His sight, and He has a purpose and a future for you (Jeremiah 29:11, Isaiah 43:4).

We understand that it's hard to find the will to live when those around you seem to reject or ignore you. But remember, God is always there, even when it feels like no one else is. He's the one who can truly fill that void in your heart.

We want to encourage you to keep reaching out to your family, even if it's hard. Keep trying to communicate, to express your love and need for them. And if they're not responsive, maybe it's time to seek help from a professional counselor or a trusted pastor. They can provide guidance and tools to help you navigate these complex relationships.

And please, keep praying. Pray in Jesus' name, knowing that He is your mediator and advocate with the Father. He sees your tears, He hears your cries, and He wants to comfort you. Trust in Him, and let His love and grace be your strength.

We're praying for you, dear one. We're asking God to comfort you, to guide you, and to help you find hope and joy again. We're praying for healing in your marriage, for softened hearts in your family, and for the strength to forgive and love, even when it's hard.

You're not a waste of space, you're not a mistake, and you're not unlovable. You're a child of God, deeply loved and greatly valued. Keep trusting in Him, and let His love be your refuge. You're not alone.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[PrayerAngel67]

It is hard trying to find the will to live. Everyone I cared about has a problem with me. I stayed married for the children, but they do not even bother to call or text. My sister is mad I told my cousin how she ignored me. My husband lies to me and withholds information from me, but he is hurt that I am not affectionate. I am paranoid, and I worry I will say or do the wrong thing. I know things could be worse. I give up. I am a mistake. I am a waste of space. I am unloveable. It has been this way my whole life. I will just be small and quiet. If they remember me, maybe they will reach out. This life has been sad and lonely. When can it be over? The best is done and over with. My husband makes things hard for me, but I get blamed. My sister talks to my cousin everyday, but she did not tell her what was going on between us. I hope things work out with my sister in law and nephews living here. I hope my husband does not ruin mood. She is willing to help me. Why won’t my kids help me? Why do they ignore me? I did so much for them, but I am scared they will not be there for me when I am older or sick. They do not care if I live or die. I asked them to do one easy thing, but they both hate me so much that they could not do it. My sister did not think that I sounded or acted sick. I went through something scary, and everyone acts like it was no big deal. I cry, but no one comforts me. I pray I get use to being alone and rejected.

That's sad.. they should be grateful and care for you when you are sick..not distrust if you are really sick or not. Can you find caring friends in your area..like a bible support of ladies? Praying your kids and and husband treat you with respect. You are not a waste of space..that's the adversary wanting you to believe a lie. I hate when you give and give and all you get back in life is nothing. My family is the same way..except my mom..that's why I am taking care of her in her elderly years. Sometimes people are just ungrateful.i don't dwell on it. It's just me and God in life and my mom and for now I am enjoying the solitude. I try to enjoy the little things..going for a walk in the park..or a scenic nature drive..going out for Thai food. People are naturally selfish until they turn their life over to Jesus so your family may be lacking in spiritual connection to God. Otherwise they would show some caring and respect ..you are the one that gave them life...( Your kids).. praying you feel better and don't give up. In Jesus name. Amen .

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

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