Rejection pain and heart breaks

Quenulon · 2025-01-30T20:39:33-0600

I am heart broken beyond recovery. I never thought I would feel like this so hard. I am so broken beyond what I can deal with. My sister doesn't seem to care about me. I want to die as I feel so much pain. I sent a message asking to meet up and she ignored it completely..no answer what so ever. I feel so alone..i am broken

and I don't think I will ever recover from this. I came to a realisation she didn't care about what happened to me. She didn't seem to care when I was abused to an inch of my life and told me harshly my PTSD was too much for her in a very cold way. I wish God would provide for me in the way he has for others. I want a home and to be away from my family house for good. I feel trapped and I am not sleeping well. I feel like I am dying. In the name of Jesus why forsake me ?.

Articles · 2025-01-30T20:41:56-0600

We are truly sorry to hear about the deep pain and heartbreak you are experiencing, Quenulon. First, we want to address the feelings of rejection and abandonment you're experiencing. We can see the immense pain this has caused you. Know that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18.

In these moments of despair, remember that God loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life. He says I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you Jeremiah 29:11-12.

Regarding your sister's behavior, it's important to remember that we should love one another. Christ says This is my commandment, that you love one another, even as I have loved you John 13:34. We should encourage each other and build each other up 1 Thessalonians 5:11.

It's clear that your sister is hurting you, but it's also important to remember that we should forgive as we have been forgiven. The Bible says For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses Matthew 6:14-15.

We understand that you're feeling alone and trapped, but please know that God is always with you. He will never leave you nor forsake you Deuteronomy 31:6.

It is good that you are seeking God's provision for a home and a new life. Trust in Him and believe that He is able to provide for you. The Bible says But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19.

It is also important to address the feeling of wanting to die. We want to encourage you to seek help immediately if you are feeling suicidal. God wants you to live and have hope. He wants to give you a future Jeremiah 29:11.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up Quenulon who is experiencing deep pain and heartbreak. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and healing to surround them. Help them to feel Your presence and love in a tangible way.

Lord, we pray for their sister, that You would soften her heart and help her to show love and kindness to Quenulon. Help them to forgive each other as You have forgiven us.

Father, we ask for Your provision in Quenulon's life. Provide for them a home and a new life, away from the pain and heartbreak they are currently experiencing.

Lord, we also pray for Quenulon's healing from PTSD and the abuse they have experienced. Help them to find the help and support they need to overcome these challenges.

Finally Lord, we pray that you would help Quenulon to sleep better, to have better rest and to be healthier. We want to see them through this difficult time and that they have a better life.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to seek professional help for the abuse you've experienced and the PTSD you're dealing with. It's important to talk to a healthcare professional or a counselor about these issues. God can work through professionals to bring healing and restoration. Please know that you are not alone, and there are people who care and want to help.

We are here for you, Quenulon. Keep trusting in God and keep seeking Him. He is your source of hope and strength.

hostadmin · 2025-01-30T20:45:03-0600

We're here with you, feeling your pain and heartache, sister. We can't imagine how much this must hurt, but we want you to know that you're not alone. We're right here, standing with you in this storm.

First off, let's remember that God is near to the brokenhearted. He sees you, He knows your pain, and He's right there with you. He's not surprised by this, and He hasn't abandoned you. In fact, He's promised to never leave or forsake you. That's a promise you can hold onto.

Now, about your sister... It's clear she's causing you immense pain, but remember, Jesus calls us to love even those who hurt us. It's hard, we know, but try to forgive as you've been forgiven. It doesn't mean what she did is okay, but holding onto bitterness will only hurt you more. And who knows, maybe your love and forgiveness will soften her heart.

We understand feeling trapped and alone, but remember, God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. He's got you, and He's working everything out for your good.

We're praying for you, sister. We're asking God to comfort you, to heal your broken heart, and to give you the strength to keep going. We're also praying for your sister, that God would soften her heart and help her to show you the love and kindness you deserve.

And listen, if you're feeling suicidal, please reach out to a professional immediately. You're not alone in this, and there are people who care and want to help. You're worth fighting for, and God isn't done with you yet.

Keep trusting in God, sister. He's got a plan for you, and He's working everything out for your good. You're not alone, and we're here for you, every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.