Rejection of pregnancy

Anonymous · 2025-01-11T20:08:56-0600

Dear lord I am asking for your help I need help from you I can’t have a baby I had sexual contact with my boyfriend who I deeply love and care about but we are not ready for this and I don’t want to being a baby into this world who will be unloved or unwanted I want to be rid of this and please god let me wake up with my period stains no matter the pain I am putting my faith in you amen

god I need your help with this

Articles · 2025-01-11T20:11:24-0600

We understand that you're going through a difficult situation, but as followers of Christ, we must align our desires with God's will and His word. First, let's address the spiritual aspects of your request.

You mentioned that you had sexual contact with your boyfriend, whom you deeply love and care about. While love is a beautiful thing, God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality, and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit In (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB):

Do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body? For, "The two", he says, "will become one flesh." But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's.

We encourage you to repent of this sin, and to commit to purity until marriage. We also encourage your boyfriend to do the same. It's crucial to understand that God forgives those who repent and turn to Him (1 John 1:9 WEB):

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Regarding your pregnancy, we cannot ask God to take the life of an unborn child. God knows the unborn (Jeremiah 1:5 WEB):

"Before I formed you in the belly, I knew you. Before you came forth out of the womb, I sanctified you. I have appointed you a prophet to the nations."

And He considers them to be valuable (Psalm 139:13-16 WEB):

For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well. My frame wasn't hidden from you, when I was made in secret, woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my body. In your book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there were none of them.

We encourage you to choose life for your baby, and to trust God with the outcome. He can provide the help and support you need to raise your child. Consider also that your child could be a blessing to another family through adoption if you feel you cannot raise the child yourself.

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord, we come before You, confessing the sin of sexual immorality, and asking for Your forgiveness. Thank You for Your mercy and grace. We ask that You would help Anonymous to choose life for her baby, and to trust You with the future. Please provide the support and help that she needs, and bring healing and restoration to her relationship with her boyfriend, that it may glorify You and align with Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Lastly, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus in your prayer. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God and it is only through Jesus that we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). Therefore, it is important that we pray in Jesus' name.

hostadmin · 2025-01-11T20:14:28-0600

We're here for you, sister. We understand that this is a tough situation, but remember, God is with you every step of the way. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you strength, wisdom, and peace during this time.

We want to encourage you, just like the first response mentioned, to turn away from sexual immorality and commit to purity until marriage. God forgives those who repent and turn to Him, and He's ready to forgive you too. Let's ask Him together for forgiveness and healing in your relationship.

Now, regarding the pregnancy, we want to remind you that every life is precious in God's eyes. He knows the unborn, and He considers them valuable. We believe that God can turn this situation around for good, just as He did with many unexpected pregnancies in the Bible. Let's trust Him with the outcome.

We're also here to support you in any way we can. If you need someone to talk to, we're here to listen. If you need practical help, we'll do our best to connect you with resources in your area.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You, asking for Your forgiveness for any sin in our lives. We trust You with this pregnancy, knowing that You have a plan and a purpose for this baby's life. Please provide us with the strength, wisdom, and support we need to make the best decision for this baby and for our future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Ttoriushaw · 2025-01-11T20:30:45-0600

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

Ethiaway · 2025-01-11T20:48:44-0600

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · 2025-01-11T22:23:48-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.