Regarding marriage restoration

[Nymeedoth]

Praise the Lord, this is the 5th time I am posting here, thank you doing prayer for me, may Jesus bless u all. This is regarding my ongoing divorce case, I am V and my is O, from 22nd dec things were getting better, my wife called on christmas, and even new year, whenever she got afraid she used to call even during late night or early mornig 2 am 3 am, on 3rd jan she asked me to meet her, on 5th jan i went to her town, as currently because of our jobs we are in different city, i came to this city because she only supported for my phd. so on 5th jan we met, went for lunch, movie, talked about all our issues, how we can manage it, watch sunset together, she invited me to her apartment we prayed together, there she said that after one year she is praying, divorce case she filed a year ago, so it was decided that we will give our marriage another shot, she shared that during this last one year she dated two guys, and one out of it, she even talked with his parents and both were serious, but because of the divorce as she dont know she said no to him and she blamed to me that everything is happening because of me, still we talked and decided we will try to save our marriage, then i came back to my college with the hope that next weekend i will go to her place, then 2 days went nice then again she said no, i talked nicely with her and then again she said yes lets try u can talk to her family, i assured her i will take care of everything and Lord will bless u, then again wat happedn dont know she said no and she dont want this, and in jan last week she blocked me everywhere and today she blocked me in my gospel insta as well and there is no way to contact her, so may be next week i will go n visit her plz pray

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a challenging time regarding your marriage, Nymeedoth. Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His will according to His word.

Firstly, we commend you for your efforts in trying to reconcile your marriage. God's will is for marriages to be restored to a godly state. It is clear that God hates divorce and putting away.

Malachi 2:16 "For I hate divorce", says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and don't be unfaithful."

Our hearts go out to you as you've experienced this emotional turmoil. It's important to remember that God is always with you, and He cares about your situation deeply.

Psalm 34:18 Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.

However, we must address a few things that do not align with biblical principles. Firstly, you mentioned that your wife dated two other men and even considered marriage with one of them. This is a clear violation of the marriage covenant. God's word is clear that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.

Mark 10:9 What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.

Secondly, it's important to acknowledge that the blame for the situation cannot be solely placed on you. Marriage is a union of two people, and both parties have a responsibility to uphold their vows.

Lastly, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.

John 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

Let's pray together for your situation:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our brother Nymeedoth. Lord, we know that You desire for marriages to be restored to a godly state. We pray for Nymeedoth's marriage, that You would intervene and bring the healing and salvation to both Nymeedoth and his wife individually and their marriage. Please bring both hearts to a place of repentance and a desire to serve You.

We pray that You would give Nymeedoth the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. Guide him as he seeks to reconcile his marriage and honor You in the process.

We also pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and bring her to a place of repentance and a desire to reconcile her marriage. Bring godly people into her life to provide guidance and support.

Finally, we pray that both Nymeedoth and his wife would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ if they have not already, that You may be glorified in their lives.

We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Regarding visiting your wife, we must advise you to exercise caution. It's important to respect her wishes and not pursue her physically if she is not willing. Instead, continue to pray for her and trust that God is working in her heart. We have to trust in God's plan.

If you can find a way to send her a letter or a message via a third party, do so with care. Let her know that you are praying for her and that you desire to reconcile your marriage in a godly manner. But remember, it's important to give her space and not pursue her against her will.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, friend. It's been a rollercoaster, hasn't it? We've been praying for you and your situation, believing that God is not done with your marriage yet. We're so glad to hear that there have been moments of hope and progress. It's like the sunsets you mentioned - even in the darkest times, there's always a hint of light on the horizon.

We want to encourage you to keep trusting in God's plan. It's true that your wife has made some decisions that aren't in line with God's will, but remember, we're all on a journey. None of us are perfect, and God is in the business of redemption.

We're going to keep praying for you both. We'll ask God to soften her heart, to bring her to a place of repentance, and to give her a desire to save your marriage. We'll also pray for you, that you would have the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time, and that you would continue to honor God in the process.

And you're right, it's important to respect her wishes. Let's trust that God is working in her heart, and that He will open the right doors at the right time. In the meantime, keep seeking God, keep praying, and keep trusting. He's got this, friend.

 

[Nymeedoth]

i did mention Jesus in my request, i have insta page where i share gospel. and i dropped her a email which i dont know whether she read or not, and as far as her dating is concerned i m worried about that but she assured me that she kept marraige bed pure and i do trust her, but it is bothering me, but the thing is she herself is not happy at all she is just chasing things and i feel very bad, i realy want my marriage to work, as far as visiting her i will again write her, i will do fasting prayer, and i took the advice of my pastor he said u can go n met her n keep meeting upto 5-10 minutes, i m geeting different thinks from diffrent people differtn advice, i m confused and sometimes i feel whether should i move on

 

[flora]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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