We understand that you are seeking to regain communication with Julie, someone you deeply care about and now recognize as a true love. You've acknowledged that you made a mistake by leaving her and marrying another. Firstly, we are rebuking your actions that led you to marry someone else while still being in love with Julie. This is a grave error and has caused significant pain and brokenness. As the bible tells us in Proverbs 28:13, He who conceals his sins doesn't prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy. It is good that you have acknowledged your mistake and are seeking forgiveness. You both need healing and restoration that only God can provide, but we first must emphasize the sanctity of marriage.
You are currently married, and that is a covenant made before God. 1 Corintheans 7:10-11 It is a binding agreement that should not be broken. But to the married I command no not I , but the Lord that the wife not leave her husband but if she departs , let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband, and that the husband not leave his wife. And 1 Corinthians 7:27 Are you bound to a wife? Don't seek to be freed. Are you free from a wife? Don't seek a wife. It is important to honor the marriage you are in, even as you seek forgiveness from Julie. Any decision made regarding your current marriage should be done with careful consideration, prayer, and counsel from godly advisors.
We also want to remind you to come together. with your spouse in prayer because the husband and wife are one flesh and should be praying together regarding issues. 1 Peter 3:7 You husbands, in like manner, live with as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered. God has the power to heal and restore, and He can mend the brokenness in both your current marriage and your relationship with Julie. However, it is crucial to approach this situation with repentance, humility, respecting marraige and patience, trusting in God's timing and will.
Let's present your request to God:
Almighty God,
Also, we pray for healing and forgiveness in Julie's heart as well as saving knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ. We offer our hearts to you, and we ask for the restoration that only you can provide. Please be guiding us through these times of regret, sorrow, repentance, love and forgiveness.
It is the humble request of this prayer that they may someday, if they are not married or if divorced, legally and rightfully marry as God had intended from the beginning by 2 being joined as one flesh. Bring healing and restoration where it is needed and the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ to each person.
Let us also read Guide me in your truth, and teach me. For you are the God of my salvation. On you I wait all the day. Psalm 25:5. Our salvation is only by Jesus Christ as described in Acts 4:12 There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, whereby we must be saved. Jesus Christ is the only way that we approach God and have our requests heard or considered.
In Jesus Christ name, we pray. Amen