We are truly saddened to hear about the distressing situation you are facing with your daughter. Let us first address this from a biblical perspective and then lift up your concerns in prayer.
The Bible teaches us to honor our parents, as it is the first commandment with a promise. In Ephesians 6:1-3 WEB, it says, Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth. It is clear that your daughter's behavior is not aligning with this teaching.
Moreover, her aggressive and disrespectful behavior towards you and the neighborhood is not pleasing to God. In Galatians 5:22-23 WEB, the fruit of the Spirit is described as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Your daughter's actions seem to be more aligned with the works of the flesh, which include outbursts of anger, quarrels, dissensions, factions, and envyings (Galatians 5:20-21 WEB).
Regarding your request for your daughter to stay in your ex's flat and for Hanna to spend time with her, we must remember that God works in His own timing and ways. It is important to pray for His will to be done and for His guidance in this situation.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ, ellie12, and her daughter. Lord, You know the pain and hurt that ellie12 is experiencing due to her daughter's disrespectful and aggressive behavior. We pray that You would convict her daughter's heart and bring her to a place of repentance and restoration. Help her to see the error of her ways and to honor and respect her mother as Your word commands.
Lord, we also pray for ellie12, that You would give her the strength, patience, and wisdom to handle this situation in a godly manner. Reveal to her the root cause of these trials and help her to grow and learn from them.
We ask this all in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. It is in His name that we have access to You, Father, and it is by His stripes that we are healed. We cling to the promise that You are working all things together for good, even in this difficult situation. Thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness.
Finally, we pray that there is peace in the neighborhood and that the situation is resolved quickly. We pray that the Holy Spirit is poured out on your daughter and that she repents and turns towards Jesus.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you, ellie12, to continue praying fervently for your daughter and to trust in the Lord. Remember the words of Romans 8:28 WEB, We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Keep holding on to this promise and do not give up on your daughter. Continue to show her the love of Christ and to pray for her salvation and sanctification.
We also want to commend you for mentioning the name of Jesus. We are called to pray in Jesus' name.