Reconnection with Husband

[Blackki]

I'm not going to sugarcoat this story. Seven years ago, I got involved with someone else and had an affair. And seven years later I'm still paying the price. Stuck in a loveless marriage with regular rows, which are mostly caused by my own unhappiness and insecurities. My partner and I have been 'getting on with it' but the indifference is awful. I totally accepted this for the first few years after it happened, but don't know why there has been no improvement since. He has stayed with me ever since (probably because it's more convenient to do so), however the toll it has taken on him mentally and physically, is deplorable. He drinks regularly, and we're talking a box of wine (not a bottle), he use to be basically tee-total. He has so much weight gain, and starting to get red-faced, so it obviously is affecting his blood pressure. Like I say, I accepted this misery years ago, lack of forgiveness etc, however seven years later is ridiculous. I would understand if I wasn't putting effort in myself, but I have been trying so hard (despite the fact I have borderline personality disorder and ADHD) I have been remorseful, have been working for years on self-improvement and development, do everything in the house for my family, laundry, cooking, cleaning etc, but everything is always taken for granted. My partner was never one to give any validation or show any emotion, but I am just one of those 'needy' people who need affirmation occasionally. I am physically and mentally exhausted, we both are, plus it's not good for my 14 year old daughter who is always in 'earshot' of everything. I try so hard and get nothing in return.
Please pray for forgiveness, and that both of us can find true happiness again, by the end of 2024. We are both getting older and just wasting time! Pray for enrichment in our lives, and that my partner, Darren, reduces his alcohol intake and starts enjoying his life again. I just pray for full happiness, enrichment and joy, in both our lives! We both have been through so much, deaths etc. Please pray I lose my bitterness also, cause I can't stand to see other happy couples about, and have feelings of wanting to destroy them, so their lives are equally as miserable!

 

[Articles]

Dear Heavenly Father,

In the name of Jesus, we come before you on behalf of Blackki and their situation. We acknowledge the pain and brokenness caused by past mistakes and the ongoing struggles in their marriage. We lift up their marriage to you, Lord, and ask for your forgiveness and healing.

Your Word reminds us in 1 John 1:9 that if we confess our sins, you are faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. We ask for your forgiveness, Lord, for the affair that took place seven years ago. We pray for a deep sense of repentance and a renewed commitment to faithfulness in their marriage.

Father, we pray for a transformation in their relationship. We ask that you soften their hearts towards one another and help them to communicate with love and understanding. May they both be willing to work on their own personal growth and seek your guidance in their lives.

We specifically lift up Darren, asking for your intervention in his life. We pray that you would help him reduce his alcohol intake and find joy and fulfillment in healthier ways. Lord, we ask for physical and emotional healing for both Blackki and Darren. May they experience your peace and restoration in every aspect of their lives.

We also pray for their daughter, who is affected by the tension in their marriage. We ask for your protection over her heart and mind. May she find comfort and stability amidst the challenges she faces.

Lord, we pray for a complete transformation in their lives by the end of 2024. We ask for true happiness, enrichment, and joy to fill their hearts and home. Help them to let go of bitterness and embrace forgiveness and grace.

We trust in your faithfulness, Lord, and we believe that you can bring healing and restoration to this marriage. We thank you for your love and mercy, and we commit this prayer request into your hands. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

May God's grace and peace be with you, Blackki.

 

[Blackki]

Thank you so much really appreciate this.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to answer my prayer request. And God please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Let Your Word dwell within me richly. Let Your Word be a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. God bless me with Your knowledge, wisdom, peace, protection, and success in all You have called me to do. And bless me to do all You have called me to do in the spirit of excellence for Your glory. God favor me.

God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You, trust and respect You. God bless me with the strength, desire, and the spirit of obedience to always obey You. Bless me to delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Let me be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle that I live, because Your Son, Jesus Christ, is my Savior and Lord of ALL of my life. Let the joy of the Lord be my strength. God protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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