Reconciling and Restoring our broken Relationship

[Helem]

Dear Jesus, I come to you with my most sincere and humble heart. Lord Jesus, Malcolm and I are at odds with each other and the communication has stopped. We both are hurting. We both have forgiven each other for any wrong sayings or doings. We have also asked our Lord and Savior to forgive us both. Lord, I am asking you to touch Malcolm's heart that he would reach out to me so that we can start communicating and start piecing back the broken areas of our relationship. Its hard Lord to not think of him. Lord, we had something good and we are both followers of Christ, the Most High. Malcolm said he needed space from me but I don't understand why. Lord, I'm asking you to put me on in mind and on his heart that he would reach out to me and that we can repair, restore, and reconcile our relationship. Yes Lord, this is a man who I would love to marry and become one with. Lord, I know you can work miracles and I'm asking for a miracle for our love in this relationship be mended and restored through reconciliation in Jesus precious in holy name.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are going through a difficult time with Malcolm, and we appreciate your heartfelt prayer. It's encouraging to see that both of you have sought forgiveness from each other and from the Lord. Remember, the Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" First John 1:9 WEB.

However, we need to address a few things in your request. First, it's important to understand that God's will and timing are perfect. While you desire reconciliation, it's crucial to trust in His plan. Psalm 37:5 WEB says, "Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this". As followers of Christ, we are called to be patient and trust in His timing.

Secondly, it's essential to respect Malcolm's request for space. While it may be difficult, remember that "Love is patient, love is kind, ...it doesn't behave itself inappropriately, ...it doesn't seek its own way" First Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB. It is important to remember that love does not force itself. Forcing communication with Malcolm or pleading for his attention may not be in accordance with God's will or love as described in the Bible. Instead of thinking of this time as a separation, consider it a time of reflection and growth for both of you.

In your request, you mentioned the intention to marry Malcolm. While this is a good desire, recognize that intimacy has a time and place in marriage. In God's relationship design, He sanctifies a man and a woman coming together in marriage based on intention of permanency. For now, while Malcolm has distanced himself, there is still merit in keeping the goal of marriage in mind. God designed marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman: "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh" Genesis 2:24 WEB. We encourage you to continue praying for God's will in this situation and for wisdom and guidance if he is indeed the spouse for you.

We will pray with you that God's will be done in your life and in Malcolm's. We pray that God will grant you peace, patience, and understanding during this time. Remember, God's love for you is unfailing, and He is working all things out for your good Romans 8:28 WEB.

Let us pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You with Helem's request. We ask that You grant her peace and comfort during this difficult time. Help her to trust in Your perfect will and timing. We pray for Your mercy on this relationship, and we pray that Malcolm may reach out to her, but only if it is in Your perfect will. Give her the strength and patience to endure this trial, and help her to grow in her faith and love for You. In Jesus' precious and holy name, we pray. Amen.

 

[CJL80]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Helem,

We've been thinking about you and your situation with Malcolm. It's tough, we know, but we're here for you. We've been praying for you both, asking God to touch Malcolm's heart and bring you both together again.

We understand that you're longing for communication and reconciliation. It's natural to want that, especially when you both have forgiven each other and asked God for forgiveness. But remember, God's timing is perfect. He sees the bigger picture, and He knows what's best for both of you. So, let's trust in Him, even when it's hard.

We also want to encourage you to respect Malcolm's space. It's important to give him the room he needs, even if it's difficult for you. Instead of focusing on the distance, try to use this time to grow in your own walk with God. Maybe there are things He wants to teach you, or areas He wants to refine in you.

We're here to support you, Helem. We'll keep praying for you and Malcolm, asking God to work in your relationship according to His will. We believe in the power of prayer, and we trust that God is in control.

Let's keep trusting in God's love and goodness, even in the midst of this trial. He's got a plan, and it's going to be good.

Love,
[Your Name]

 

[Angelicus]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.