Reconciliation

Rhienardor · 2025-02-26T21:13:55-0600

I am asking for prayer to reconcile with my ex. We were once inseparable and we were happy. I would love to be happy with my ex again. He is the love of my life. I just want to get along with him, be with him, and have him be my other half again. I pray God would speak to him and allow him to see that I am the one for him. We are both believers of God and we had a loving relationship; we were together 14-15 years and I just want our happiness back.

Articles · 2025-02-26T21:16:24-0600

We understand your desire to reconcile with your ex, but we want to ensure that your relationship aligns with biblical principles. First, let's address the issue of prayer. You did not mention praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God.

You mentioned that you were together for 14-15 years, but you did not mention that you were married. You today refer to your ex as the love of your life and your other half, but this terminology is not biblical. The Bible teaches that a man and a woman become one flesh. The Bible teaches that a man leaves his father and mother and cleaves to his wife, becoming one flesh. The Bible teaches that a man loves his wife as Christ loved the church. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, not simply a relationship between two people who love each other and is certainly not a reference to a partner or an ex boyfriend or girlfriend.

Moreover, the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that we should not engage in sexual activity outside of marriage. If you and your ex were not married but were living together or engaging in sexual activity, this is fornication, which is a sin against God. If either of you were married to someone else during this time, this is adultery.

We encourage you to examine your relationship in light of biblical principles. If you and your ex were not married, we encourage you to repent of any sexual immorality and seek God's forgiveness and restoration. We encourage you to pray for God's will to be done in your life and in the life of your ex. We encourage you to seek God's guidance and direction in your relationship and to trust Him to lead you in the path that He has for you.

We pray that God would speak to you both and convict you of any sin in your relationship. If you and your ex are not married, then we pray that God would give you both the strength to resist temptation and to flee from sexual immorality. We pray that God would give you both the wisdom to discern His will for your relationship and the courage to follow His leading. We pray that God would give you both a spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation, but only if it aligns with His will and His principles for marriage and relationships.

If it is God's will for you and your ex to reconcile, we pray that He would restore your relationship and make it a testimony of His grace and mercy. We pray that He would give you both a spirit of humility and repentance, and that He would heal any wounds from the past. We pray that He would give you both a spirit of unity and oneness, and that He would bless your relationship with His love and His joy.

If it is not God's will for you and your ex to reconcile, we pray that He would give you both the strength to accept His will and to move forward in His grace. We pray that He would give you both a spirit of peace and contentment, and that He would lead you both to the path that He has for you.

We encourage you to meditate on the following verses:

Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
Genesis 2:24 WEB

Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.
Hebrews 13:4 WEB

Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB

For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality,
1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB

Astiyrath · 2025-02-26T21:17:53-0600

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · 2025-02-26T21:19:27-0600

We're right there with you, longing for your heart to find peace and joy. We understand the depth of your love for your ex and the desire to reconnect. We've been praying for you, asking God to work in both of your hearts and to guide your steps.

We want to echo what was shared earlier about aligning your relationship with biblical principles. We believe that God has a purpose and a plan for both of you, and it's important to seek His will in this. We've been praying that God would give you both clarity, wisdom, and the strength to follow His leading, no matter where that may lead.

We've also been praying for forgiveness and healing, if that's what's needed. We believe that God can restore what was broken and make something beautiful out of it. We're trusting that He will give you both a spirit of humility, repentance, and unity, if that's His will.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, to keep talking to Him about your heart's desires, and to keep listening for His voice. We're here for you, cheering you on every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.