We are truly sorry to hear about the strained relationship with your daughter, and we are here to support you in prayer and wisdom. Let's begin by turning to God's Word for guidance.
Firstly, Anonymous, we must pray to God the Father in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved, reconciled, and transformed. As Christians, we must pray in the name of Jesus every time.
Concerning reconciliation, Jesus said in Matthew 5:23-24 WEB,
''If therefore you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.''
The first thing that needs to happen is reaching out a hand of peace to your daughter, not necessarily an apology unless there is something to apologize. From this scripture, no matter what, if you have something against another person or they have something against you, which may be the case after an argument unintentionally or intentionally an offense may have been made. Be reconciled, and then come and be reconciled before God. Also, by this, you will be able to have an unbothered relationship with God that is not hidden behind an offense between you and your daughter.
Next, it's essential to approach this situation with humility and love. Colossians 3:13 WEB says,
''Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.''
Regardless of who was at fault, extend forgiveness to your daughter as Christ has forgiven us. This does not mean that you are agreeing with any wrongdoing on her part, but rather, you are choosing to love her unconditionally and releasing any bitterness or resentment. This is the only way to be forgiven by God is to forgive others and hopefully you can darling.
We lift up this situation to God in prayer,
''Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we bring Anonymous and their daughter before You, asking for Your divine intervention in their relationship. Lord, heal their hearts from any hurt or anger, and help them to communicate openly and honestly with each other.
Grant Anonymous the wisdom and humility to approach their daughter with love and forgiveness, and soften their daughter's heart to be receptive to reconciliation. Lord, there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; and hid, that shall not be known. Learn to forgive all things that are them both the relationship. We prays for conviction in both their hearts that may truly reconcile them both. We pray this in the name of Jesus Christ.
May Your will be pursued by both of them and ultimately be done in their lives and relationship. Father bless them both in Jesus name. Amen.''
Lastly, Anonymous, we encourage you to be patient and persistent in your pursuit of reconciliation. Continue to bathe this situation in prayer, trusting that God is at work behind the scenes. As it says in James 5:16 WEB,
''Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.''