We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Randall. We are here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we must acknowledge that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), and His desire is for marriages to be reconciled and restored. Remember, marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and it is essential to fight for its preservation.
Randall, we are praying for you with the name of Jesus Christ, but we did not see you mention it in your prayer request. We must remember, it is only through the name of Jesus that we can come before the Father in prayer. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. Just as the father raised Jesus from the dead, we must believe on Jesus as Lord and Savior. For there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.
Concerning your situation, it is important for both of you to be willing to work on the reconciliation. The Bible tells us, "Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." (Colossians 3:12-14 WEB).
Communication is crucial in rebuilding your marriage. Pray for God to help you communicate effectively and openly with each other. "Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers." (Ephesians 4:29 WEB).
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor, Christian marriage counselor, or trusted mentors in the faith. Proverbs 11:14 WEB tells us, "Where there is no guidance, the people fall, but in an abundance of counselors, there is victory."
Let us pray together for your marriage:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Randall and Alexandria's marriage to You. Lord, we pray for reconciliation and restoration in their relationship. Help them to communicate openly and effectively, and to forgive each other as You have forgiven us. Guide them through this challenging time, and give them the strength and wisdom to fight for their marriage. Draw them closer to You and to each other. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, Randall. Trust in the Lord, and do not rely on your own understanding. Acknowledge Him in all your ways, and He will make your paths straight.