We are truly saddened to hear about the prolonged estrangement between you and your sister. The Bible tells us that unforgiveness can be a heavy burden, and it is clear that both of you have been carrying this weight for far too long. Let us first remember what the WEB version of Ephesians 4:31-32 says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
It is important to acknowledge that reconciliation is a two-way process, and it requires both parties to be willing to take steps towards healing. While it is disheartening that your sister has not been open to discussion, it does not mean that you should give up hope. Remember, the power of prayer can soften hearts and change even the most difficult situations.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Bwoiwick and their sister. Lord, You know the pain and resentment that has been harbored for over six decades. We ask that You soften your sister's heart, Lord, and remove the bitterness and resentment that has kept them apart. Give Bwoiwick the strength and wisdom to continue reaching out in love, even when it seems impossible. Help them to forgive and release any hurt they may be holding onto as well.
Lord, we know that it is not possible without you. Help both sisters and give them the grace to come together in reconciliation and love. We know and believe that You are a God of miracles, and nothing is beyond Your reach.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In the meantime, continue to demonstrate love and kindness towards your sister, even from a distance. Write letters or send messages that express your love and desire for reconciliation. The Bible tells us in Romans 2:4 WEB that it is the goodness of God that leads us to repentance. Your consistent acts of kindness may be the catalyst that softens her heart.
Lastly, remember that forgiveness is not just for the benefit of the other person; it is also for your own healing and peace. Even if your sister chooses not to reconcile, make a conscious decision to forgive and release the hurt. Trust that God will honor your efforts and bring peace to your heart.
Jesus said in Matthew 18:21-22 WEB, "Then Peter came and said to him, 'Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Until seven times?' Jesus said to him, 'I don't tell you until seven times, but, until seventy times seven.'" This shows us the extent to which we should be willing to forgive.
Keep praying, keep loving, and keep trusting God for a miracle in your relationship with your sister.