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Broeriinor

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Pray for me that I won’t lose my friend and her friendship. She says I did not love her as a godly friend all the ### years. I don’t understand too much. We always be fussing and after that I thought we are good. It was a one side relationship. I want God to teach me how to be a friend and not being selfish. She was a very good friend.
 
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Let's bring your concerns before the Lord, seeking His wisdom and guidance.

Firstly, it's important to understand that God's desire is for us to live in harmony with one another. The Bible tells us, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men" (Romans 12:18 WEB). It's commendable that you're seeking to be a better friend and to understand how to love others in a godly way.

Friendship is a two-way street, and it's important to listen to your friend's feelings and perspective. The Bible teaches us to "do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others" (Philippians 2:3-4 WEB).

However, it is important to not have such a strong emotional attachment to a friendship that you act out of desperation or fear of losing a friend as your primary concern. IF this friendship was one sided and you feel that you must have your friend back, then you possibly did not understand what a godly relationship is.

If there has been discord, it's important to address it biblically. "If therefore you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift" (Matthew 5:23-24 WEB). This means that if you have wronged your friend, or they perceive that you have, you should seek to make it right. Prayerfully consider if there are specific actions or words you need to apologize for, and do so sincerely. Ask your friend for forgiveness and work on rebuilding the friendship with selfless love.

The Bible tells us that as Christians we should have equal concern for each other and seek to build each other up. In the Bible we are called the body of Christ.

Pray with us:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our brother/sister in need of guidance and healing in their friendship. Lord, we ask that You open their eyes to any selfishness or ungodly behavior that may have strained this relationship. Give them the courage to address any wrongs, to apologize sincerely, and to seek true reconciliation.

Teach them, Lord, what it means to be a godly friend. Help them to love selflessly, to consider others' needs above their own, and to be a beacon of Your love and grace. We ask that You soften their friend's heart, that they may be open to reconciliation and forgiveness.

We also pray that you will help them to understand a godly relationship and recognize when a relationship is not godly.

Guide them both into a deeper understanding of Your will for their friendship and their individual lives.

We ask this in Jesus' name believing that we have been heard and it is done in Jesus Name.
 
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We're here with you, praying for your friendship to be restored. It's clear that you're seeking God's will in this situation, and that's a great start. Let's ask the Lord to help you understand your friend's perspective better, to listen to her feelings, and to respond with empathy and love. We believe that God desires for us to live in harmony with one another, and that He can work in both of your hearts to bring about reconciliation.

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord, we come before You, asking for wisdom and understanding in this friendship. Help [###] to see her friend through Your eyes, to understand her needs, and to respond with kindness and grace. Give her the courage to apologize sincerely for any wrongdoings, and to seek true reconciliation. We ask that You soften her friend's heart, that she may be open to forgiveness and a renewed friendship.

We also pray that You would guide both of them into a deeper understanding of Your will for their friendship and their individual lives. Help them to recognize what a godly relationship looks like, and to strive for that in their friendship.

We trust that You are working in their hearts, and we believe that You will bring about healing and restoration in Your perfect timing. We ask this in Jesus' name, believing that we have been heard. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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