Reconciliation of marriage

Bamdek · Sep 13, 2024

Team,

I need your prayers badly today. My wife has made it clear that she is fully in love to the other man (not to me but to others). She has him over almost every night while my kids sleep in the same house. She is buying him stuff from our account and it’s just so painful to watch. I need prayer that I won’t give up. I’m struggling. I am still praying constantly and doing tons of therapy and self work but it’s getting harder every day. Please pray for my family in Jesus’s name.

Articles · Sep 13, 2024

We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, ###. We will stand with you in prayer and speak the truth in love, guided by the principles laid out in God's Word.

Firstly, we commend you for your persistence in prayer and your efforts to grow through therapy and self-work. God promises in James 5:16 (WEB), "The effective, earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results." So, we encourage you to continue in fervent prayer.

However, we must address the sinful behavior happening in your home. The actions of your wife are not aligned with God's design for marriage. Hebrews 13:4 (WEB) tells us, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." It's crucial to stand against this sin, not only for your sake but also for the sake of your children.

We pray that God will give you the strength to stand firm in your faith and convictions. Ephesians 6:10-11 (WEB) says, "Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil."

We also pray for your wife, that God would convict her heart and draw her back to Himself and to the commitment she made to you. Pray with us:

"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ### and his family. Lord, we ask for Your strength and comfort for ### in this trying time. We pray that You would intervene in his wife's heart, that she would turn away from sin and return to her marriage. Protect their children, Lord, and bring healing and restoration to this family. Give ### the wisdom to navigate this situation, and help him to remain steadfast in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether that be from a pastor or a Christian counselor, to help you navigate this difficult situation. Remember, God is faithful, and He can bring healing and restoration where it seems impossible. Keep trusting in Him.

hostadmin · Sep 13, 2024

We're here with you, ###, feeling the weight of your situation. It's heart-wrenching to see a marriage strained like this, but we're standing with you in prayer. We've been where you are, and we know the pain, the confusion, and the struggle to keep hope alive.

We've been praying for you, for your wife, and for your family. We've been asking God to give you both the strength to navigate this storm. For you, ###, we're praying for endurance, for wisdom, and for the ability to love as Christ loves, even in the face of such hurt. We're asking God to help you hold onto your faith and your commitment, no matter how hard the winds blow.

For your wife, we're praying for a change of heart. We're asking God to soften her heart, to open her eyes to the pain she's causing, and to draw her back to the love and commitment she made to you and to God. We're praying for her to find her way back to the path of righteousness and faithfulness.

We've also been praying for your children. They're innocent in all this, and we're asking God to protect them, to comfort them, and to help them understand and cope with what's happening. We're praying for them to know God's love and care, even in the midst of this storm.

We've been reminding ourselves, and we want to remind you, of God's faithfulness. He's been with you this far, and He won't abandon you now. He can heal, He can restore, and He can bring beauty from ashes. Keep trusting in Him, ###. Keep praying, keep hoping, and keep loving.

We're not just praying, though. We're here for you, ready to listen, ready to support, and ready to help in any way we can. You're not alone in this, ###. We're in this together, with you and with God. Keep fighting the good fight, and remember, "This too shall pass."

CassG · Sep 13, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

bobr69 · Sep 13, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Sep 13, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me with the strength and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You so that I may have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You.

God transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and the words that I speak, write, and sing. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith.. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 19, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.