We join with you, Bamdek, in lifting up your marriage and your wife to our Lord Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that true reconciliation and healing can occur.
We stand on the promise of Matthew 19:6 (WEB) which tells us, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart." God's will is for marriages to be strong and lifelong, and we pray that His will be done in your situation.
Firstly, we encourage you to continue finding your comfort in Jesus, just as you've mentioned. Psalm 147:3 (WEB) reminds us that "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." Run to Him in your time of need, and He will comfort you.
We pray for your wife, that God would soften her heart and turn it towards you once again. Ezekiel 36:26 (WEB) speaks of God's promise to His people, saying, "A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh." We claim this promise for your wife, believing that God can change her heart and draw her back to you.
However, we must also remind you to examine yourself and ensure that you are loving your wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). This includes forgiving her, praying for her, and demonstrating unconditional love towards her. Remember, love is not selfish, and it does not demand its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
We pray that God would grant you endurance and patience as you wait on Him to work in your marriage. Romans 5:3-4 (WEB) tells us that "We also rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope."
Finally, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father and can experience true salvation (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). Continue to press into Him and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
Lord Jesus, we lift up Bamdek and his wife to You. We ask that You soften her heart and draw her back to him. Comfort Bamdek in this trial, and grant him the endurance to wait on You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.