Reconciliation for Myself, My ###, and my Closest ### (Update 3)

Reirik · Oct 17, 2024

Please see UPDATE 3 below...

One of my best friends is female and lives across the country. I've known her for eight years. When I was on a business trip in February with my wife, we had dinner with my friend ### and her husband. My wife ### did not act very kindly to ### on this trip (we've had dinner with them before). The next day ### says dinner was quite upsetting and we shouldn't talk anymore. ### also is not a Christian.

My wife finally sent a short apology message in July to ### saying she had made peace with her and hoped that on our next trip they could meet and start over. But ### hasn't replied back. This week my wife said I should reach out to ### and see what can be done about reconciliation. I finally sent a message to her last night about talking and reconciling.

I'm waiting now... I ask for healing with my wife and that she stops being jealous of our platonic friendship. This seems to be getting better now. I pray that ### is open to my reconciliation message, and hope that we can begin talking again. I also pray for ###'s salvation.

UPDATE

### replied back to me last week finally! She said we are still friends, but that maybe we shouldn't talk to each other as much. I can tell she doesn't want to upset ###. So not a closed door, but not an open door. I have not replied back yet.

### is currently talking with me about reestablishing my friendship with ###, how she will be comfortable with it, and is working on sending her a message. We are talking about our marriage a lot.

Please pray that ### feels comfortable with ### and doesn't see her as the enemy. I want ### to get to know ### too. Please pray that ### finds the proper words to send to ###, and that ### receives them well and responds to them well. Please also continue to pray for ###'s salvation. Lastly please pray for me as this whole experience has been so nerve-racking and devastating to me...

UPDATE 2

### and I talked on Friday. ### is feeling better about things. I sent a follow-up message to ### asking how she was doing, and seeing if we can talk and catch up. She read the message today but hasn't replied. Please pray that ### is receptive to my latest message, and we can talk and start to establish our friendship again. Also please pray that ### feels the calling to send a heartfelt message to ###. Lastly please pray for ###'s salvation.

UPDATE 3

I'm still waiting for ### to reply. I'm also still waiting for ### to send a heartfelt reconciliation message to ###. I don't think the first is going to happen until the second does...

Articles · Oct 17, 2024

We understand your concerns and are here to pray and counsel with you, ###, in the name of Jesus Christ.

Firstly, it's commendable that you're seeking reconciliation and harmony in your relationships. The Bible encourages us to live in peace with others as far as it depends on us (Romans 12:18, WEB). However, we must also be mindful of the appearances of our actions and the feelings of your spouse.

While you've maintained that your friendship with ### is platonic, it's important to consider ###'s feelings and foster a spirit of openness and honesty in your marriage. As Ephesians 5:25 (WEB) reminds us, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her." This love often manifests in understanding, patience, and reassurance.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking reconciliation and healing. Lord, we ask for wisdom and guidance for ###, ###, and ###. Holy Spirit, comfort ###, and help her to find security and trust in You and in her marriage. Guide her words and actions as she seeks to reconcile with ###.

Lord, we also pray for ###. We ask that You soften her heart and make her receptive to the messages of reconciliation. We pray for her salvation, that she may come to know You personally.

God, please bring peace and understanding to their relationships. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, always seeking to honor and glorify You.

Lastly, Lord, we pray for ###. Comfort him in this trying time. Give him patience, understanding, and wisdom as he navigates these relationships.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, God is faithful and He hears our prayers. Trust in Him and His timing. Continue to seek Him and His will for your relationships.

We also encourage you to delve into the Bible, allowing God's words to guide your actions and decisions. Here are a few verses to meditate on:

- "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." (Romans 12:18, WEB)
- "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB)
- "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16, WEB)

hostadmin · Oct 17, 2024

We're here with you, ###, praying for your situation. We understand the complexity of your relationships and the desire for reconciliation. We've been praying for ###, ###, and you, and we want to encourage you to keep seeking understanding, patience, and wisdom in this process.

We're glad to hear that ### is feeling better and that you've reached out to ### again. Let's continue to pray for ###'s heart to be receptive to your messages and for ### to find the right words to express her feelings to ###. We also pray for your own strength and patience, ###, as you navigate these relationships.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for continued guidance and healing in these relationships. Lord, we pray for ###'s heart to be softened and for her to be receptive to ###'s message. We also ask for wisdom for ### as she crafts her words, that they may be heartfelt and honoring to You.

Lord, we pray for ###'s salvation, that she may come to know You personally. We ask for peace and understanding among all of you, that you may communicate openly and honestly, always seeking to honor and glorify You.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in God's faithfulness and His timing. He is with you every step of the way.

Anonymous · Oct 17, 2024

I prayed for this in the loving name of Jesus ..amen.

usha rani · Oct 17, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

Stitcher · Oct 17, 2024

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

Christopher Espinoza SR · Oct 17, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Oct 17, 2024

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hostadmin · Oct 23, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.