Reconciliation for Myself, My ###, and my Closest ### (Update 2)

Reirik · Oct 7, 2024

Please see UPDATE 2 below...

One of my best friends is female and lives across the country. I've known her for eight years. When I was on a business trip in February with my wife, we had dinner with my friend ### and her husband. My wife ### did not act very kindly to ### on this trip (we've had dinner with them before). The next day ### says dinner was quite upsetting and we shouldn't talk anymore. ### also is not a Christian.

My wife finally sent a short apology message in July to ### saying she had made peace with her and hoped that on our next trip they could meet and start over. But ### hasn't replied back. This week my wife said I should reach out to ### and see what can be done about reconciliation. I finally sent a message to her last night about talking and reconciling.

I'm waiting now... I ask for healing with my wife and that she stops being jealous of our platonic friendship. This seems to be getting better now. I pray that ### is open to my reconciliation message, and hope that we can begin talking again. I also pray for ###'s salvation.

UPDATE

### replied back to me last week finally! She said we are still friends, but that maybe we shouldn't talk to each other as much. I can tell she doesn't want to upset ###. So not a closed door, but not an open door. I have not replied back yet.

### is currently talking with me about reestablishing my friendship with ###, how she will be comfortable with it, and is working on sending her a message. We are talking about our marriage a lot.

Please pray that ### feels comfortable with ### and doesn't see her as the enemy. I want ### to get to know ### too. Please pray that ### finds the proper words to send to ###, and that ### receives them well and responds to them well. Please also continue to pray for ###'s salvation. Lastly please pray for me as this whole experience has been so nerve-racking and devastating to me...

UPDATE 2

### and I talked on Friday. ### is feeling better about things. I sent a follow-up message to ### asking how she was doing, and seeing if we can talk and catch up. She read the message today but hasn't replied. Please pray that ### is receptive to my latest message, and we can talk and start to establish our friendship again. Also please pray that ### feels the calling to send a heartfelt message to ###. Lastly please pray for ###'s salvation.

Articles · Oct 7, 2024

We understand the delicate nature of your situation, ###, and we're here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that reconciliation is a core theme in Christianity. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 5:18-19 (WEB), "But all things are of God, who reconciled us to himself through Jesus Christ, and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation; namely, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to himself, not reckoning to them their trespasses, and having committed to us the word of reconciliation."

In your case, reconciliation is needed between your wife ###, your friend ###, and yourself. It's encouraging to see that you and ### are taking steps towards this. However, it's crucial to remember that true reconciliation involves open communication, repentance, and forgiveness.

We must also address the issue of jealousy, which can be a destructive force in relationships. The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:4 (WEB), "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud,". Jealousy is contrary to love and should be resisted. Pray that God will help ### overcome any feelings of jealousy.

Moreover, it's commendable that you're concerned about ###'s salvation. The Bible encourages us to intercede for the salvation of others in Romans 10:1 (WEB), "Brothers, my heart's desire and my prayer to God is for Israel, that they may be saved."

However, we must also remember the importance of maintaining proper boundaries in friendships, especially with members of the opposite sex. While you've described your friendship with ### as platonic, it's crucial to ensure that it remains above reproach to avoid any appearance of evil, as instructed in 1 Thessalonians 5:22 (WEB), "Abstain from every form of evil."

Finally, it's important to mention that we only have access to God through the name of Jesus, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Therefore, we pray in Jesus' name.

Let us pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up ###, ###, and ### to you. Lord, we pray for reconciliation among them. Soften their hearts, help them to communicate openly, and grant them the grace to forgive each other. Lord, help ### to overcome any feelings of jealousy, and help ### to maintain pure and God-honoring friendships. We also pray for ###'s salvation. May she come to know you as her personal Savior. Lastly, Lord, grant ### peace and comfort as he navigates this difficult situation. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen."

Continue to seek God's will in this situation, and trust that He will guide you according to His perfect plan. Keep praying and communicating openly with both ### and ###.

hostadmin · Oct 7, 2024

Hey there,

We're right there with you, hoping for the best in this situation. It's great to hear that you and ### are talking more openly about this. We're praying that ### will find the right words to reach out to ###, and that ### will receive them well and respond in kind. We're also asking God to help ### see the light of salvation.

Keep us updated, okay? We're here for you.

In Jesus' name, we pray.

flora · Oct 7, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Oct 7, 2024

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usha rani · Oct 8, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Oct 13, 2024

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