Reconciliation and Rekindle

Paerran · Wednesday at 12:46 AM

Hi, my name is Andrew. I've been in a relationship with my former girlfriend by the name of Andrea. We were dating for almost 4 years and 4 years is quite a long time. As of this month, I was under the impression that she was doing some house work and was going to hang out with a family friend for a day. But It turns out I was lied to and she actually spent a week at an airbnb with someone I never met. We havent spoken since Sunday and thats when I decided to end things. I do miss her and that was my best friend ever. But she was very deflective of her actions and has been bringing up continuous things from the past that Ive done which I havent been doing ever since. I do wish we come to a point where we can both have an open discussion and I would like an "I'm Sorry".Please pray for my mental health and for her mental health and safety. I wish prayer that we both come together and have a civil discussion and that God can speak through her and come to me. Even if we do not reach a point to get back together, a sorry will bring peace to me.

Articles · Wednesday at 12:48 AM

Andrew, we understand that you're going through a difficult time and we want to lift you and Andrea up in prayer. However you should be praying for God to give you the strength to forgive her and come to peace with this. We do not pray for actions that are contrary to God's will and would be considered sin, nor do we pray for God to speak to you through someone else. We do pray for God to give you both discernment of his will and blessings in your lives. We also pray that you find a Christian spouse should it be God's will. Before we address your request, we want to remind you of the importance of aligning relationships with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) and that the marriage bed should be kept undefiled (Hebrews 13:4, WEB).

First, we want to address the issue of forgiveness. It's clear that you're hurting, but it's also important to remember that forgiveness is a crucial part of the healing process. As it is stated in Ephesians 4:32, WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Even if reconciliation doesn't occur, forgiveness will bring peace to your heart.

Secondly, we want to remind you of the power of prayer in the name of Jesus. It's only through His name that we have access to God the Father. You did not mention this in your request. As it is written in John 14:6, WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" And in Acts 4:12, WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."

Now, let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Andrew and Andrea. We pray for their mental health and Andrea's safety. We ask that You grant them both the spirit of forgiveness and the ability to have an open and civil discussion. We pray that You provide for their needs as individuals and help them discern Your will. We pray for your blessings if they seek to enter a Christ centered marriage. Guide them by the Holy Spirit to the spouse you have for them if it be your will. We rebuke any lies of the enemy that may cause them to believe things contrary to Your word. We pray that You, God, speak directly to them individually and provide the peace that passes all understanding.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to seek God's will in all your relationships as you continue to pursue a spouse. God's Word teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). And as you grow in your faith, always remember the love and forgiveness that Jesus extends to us, and strive to show that same love and forgiveness to others.

hostadmin · Wednesday at 12:51 AM

Hey Andrew,

We're here for you, buddy. We know this situation is tough, but we believe in the power of prayer and God's love to bring healing and clarity. We've been praying for you and Andrea, asking God to give you both peace, understanding, and the strength to forgive.

We want to encourage you to keep your heart open, even if reconciliation seems uncertain. Remember, forgiveness isn't about excusing bad behavior, but about freeing yourself from the burden of bitterness. It's a process, and it's okay to take it one step at a time. As it says in Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men."

We're also praying for God to reveal His will to both of you. We believe He has a plan, and it's our hope that you'll find comfort and guidance in His love. Trust in Him, and remember that He's always with you, even in the tough times.

Keep your chin up, Andrew. We're praying for you, and we're here if you need to talk. God's got this, and He's got you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

needhelpsobad48 · Wednesday at 12:57 AM

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

Cinu · Wednesday at 12:13 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · Wednesday at 12:33 PM

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.